SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Any way wondering what bands/music you guys like. A couple of mine are say anything, bowling for soup, good charlotte, nine days.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Nice video!Bible_Belt said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MzK0SF3r-YU
I met the Phunk Junkeez at a show they did in St Louis. There were about 20 people there. Join In was my mma walkout song.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
KarmaSutra said:Tool, Boston, .38 Special, Miles Davis.
Plenty more but this constitutes the bulk of what goes in my ears.
Fun to play on guitar.SamTheHobit said:What do you guys think of the red hot chillie pepper and oasis?
fvcking love RHCP. Oasis I don't listen to much but wonderwall is pretty good. I like Linkin Park, though I hated Minutes to Midnight, I even like their newer album in comparison. Then I also like Disturbed and the Rolling Stones.SamTheHobit said:What do you guys think of the red hot chillie pepper and oasis?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
everyone to their own :/Dust 2 Dust said:Atheist
Witchery
Satanic Slaughter
Judas Escariot
Godkiller
Deicide
Morbid Angel
Rotting Christ
Destroyer 666
Satyricon
Mortician
Serialized3 said:I'm gonna take you by surprise, and shoot it in your eyes, Amanda
I'm gonna treat you like a man, and bang you in the can, Amanda
There's a parking spot to the left of mine; #664. Mine's labeled, "665 - The Neighbor of The Beast". The one to the right is Crowley's.Dust 2 Dust said:Atheist
Witchery
Satanic Slaughter
Judas Escariot
Godkiller
Deicide
Morbid Angel
Rotting Christ
Destroyer 666
Satyricon
Mortician
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.