Hello everyone, since Monday i have been experiencing really bad fatigue all day. My muscles ache and im just always tired. I havent changed my diet or anything and i have been getting enough sleep. However, also since monday ive been having trouble falling asleep and ending up just lying in bed. Today i felt so bad that i stayed home from school. This is so different than the usual energetic me, can anyone help?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Fatigue hindering me...
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Make sure you're eating quite a bit.
Are you sleeping ENOUGH or do you THINK you are. Try getting about 9 hours of sleep, going to bed at the SAME time every night. It'll help you fall asleep.
You also might be getting sick...
Are you sleeping ENOUGH or do you THINK you are. Try getting about 9 hours of sleep, going to bed at the SAME time every night. It'll help you fall asleep.
You also might be getting sick...
spesmilitis
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How old are you?
Try fish oils and green tea supplements.
Try fish oils and green tea supplements.
donjuanjovi
Senior Don Juan
Age?
Supplements?
Does it feel like you may be coming down with something?
I've gone through a few periods that I feel like crap and can't fall asleep. If it persists for more than a week or two I would go see the doc.
Supplements?
Does it feel like you may be coming down with something?
I've gone through a few periods that I feel like crap and can't fall asleep. If it persists for more than a week or two I would go see the doc.
Im only 17, i dont take any supplements other than a multivitamin and a Vitamin C daily, and i dont really feel sick. I dunno, i just got back from swimming and i feel alright. It seems at night i feel alright and during the day i feel like ****.
I slept alot more today probably more like 9 hours, however tomorrow i have to wake up at 5 for swimming
I slept alot more today probably more like 9 hours, however tomorrow i have to wake up at 5 for swimming
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Go to bed now then.
especially at your age, mono is always a possibility... but more likely your rhythms are just off. If going to bed & getting up at the same time every night for a week doesn't help, you should strongly consider seeing a doctor.