"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fatigue hindering me...

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Hello everyone, since Monday i have been experiencing really bad fatigue all day. My muscles ache and im just always tired. I havent changed my diet or anything and i have been getting enough sleep. However, also since monday ive been having trouble falling asleep and ending up just lying in bed. Today i felt so bad that i stayed home from school. This is so different than the usual energetic me, can anyone help?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Make sure you're eating quite a bit.

Are you sleeping ENOUGH or do you THINK you are. Try getting about 9 hours of sleep, going to bed at the SAME time every night. It'll help you fall asleep.

You also might be getting sick...
 

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Age?
Supplements?
Does it feel like you may be coming down with something?

I've gone through a few periods that I feel like crap and can't fall asleep. If it persists for more than a week or two I would go see the doc.
 

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Im only 17, i dont take any supplements other than a multivitamin and a Vitamin C daily, and i dont really feel sick. I dunno, i just got back from swimming and i feel alright. It seems at night i feel alright and during the day i feel like ****.

I slept alot more today probably more like 9 hours, however tomorrow i have to wake up at 5 for swimming :eek:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Go to bed now then.
 

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especially at your age, mono is always a possibility... but more likely your rhythms are just off. If going to bed & getting up at the same time every night for a week doesn't help, you should strongly consider seeing a doctor.
 
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