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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

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Fatigue & cutting

Jariel

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For the last month I have been heavily fatigued, both physically and mentally. I'm still working out regularly, including cardio during off days, but I feel so drained all of the time.

I feel too tired to study most of the time and I'm spending more time at home because I just can't find the energy or motivation to go out.

I have been cutting for about 6 weeks, and though I'm getting a healthy amount of nutrition, I'm wondering if it's normal to feel so fatigued when cutting.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That can happen. Play with your body a bit, especially when cutting and you're depriving your body of things it wants. Try taking a day to eat a bunch of carbs... I noticed when I did that it would replenish my body, give me a bunch of new energy and just like a boost for a while. It's one of the things that leads me to believe in the "cheat day" system... not overly exaggerated, but still, your body needs some extra stuff once in a while to recoup.

Just try stuff, as long as you don't eat shyt for a week straight, eating a few extra carbs for a day won't hamper your cutting cycle.
 

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I think you are right. I'll try adding more carbs to my diet and maybe the occasional cheat day.

Thanks for the response.
 

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That happens to me when I train for boxing competitions.

Try taking a few days off from the gym but keep eating healthy.

In the past I have trained for competitions while studying for university final exams. It was not fun at all. I was mentally and physically drained all the time.

Now I listen to my body more carefully. Before I used to train through the pain. Not anymore though. I have learned that mental fatigue also leads to physical fatique.

Good luck.
 

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Well I have been doing 4 workout days per week + 3 days with cardio, so I guess it's no wonder I'm so lethargic. I'll try cutting down a bit and adding more carbs and see if it helps. Thanks again guys.
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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