"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fatigue & cutting

Jariel

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For the last month I have been heavily fatigued, both physically and mentally. I'm still working out regularly, including cardio during off days, but I feel so drained all of the time.

I feel too tired to study most of the time and I'm spending more time at home because I just can't find the energy or motivation to go out.

I have been cutting for about 6 weeks, and though I'm getting a healthy amount of nutrition, I'm wondering if it's normal to feel so fatigued when cutting.
 

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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That can happen. Play with your body a bit, especially when cutting and you're depriving your body of things it wants. Try taking a day to eat a bunch of carbs... I noticed when I did that it would replenish my body, give me a bunch of new energy and just like a boost for a while. It's one of the things that leads me to believe in the "cheat day" system... not overly exaggerated, but still, your body needs some extra stuff once in a while to recoup.

Just try stuff, as long as you don't eat shyt for a week straight, eating a few extra carbs for a day won't hamper your cutting cycle.
 

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I think you are right. I'll try adding more carbs to my diet and maybe the occasional cheat day.

Thanks for the response.
 

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That happens to me when I train for boxing competitions.

Try taking a few days off from the gym but keep eating healthy.

In the past I have trained for competitions while studying for university final exams. It was not fun at all. I was mentally and physically drained all the time.

Now I listen to my body more carefully. Before I used to train through the pain. Not anymore though. I have learned that mental fatigue also leads to physical fatique.

Good luck.
 

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Well I have been doing 4 workout days per week + 3 days with cardio, so I guess it's no wonder I'm so lethargic. I'll try cutting down a bit and adding more carbs and see if it helps. Thanks again guys.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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