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Fatigue & cutting

Jariel

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For the last month I have been heavily fatigued, both physically and mentally. I'm still working out regularly, including cardio during off days, but I feel so drained all of the time.

I feel too tired to study most of the time and I'm spending more time at home because I just can't find the energy or motivation to go out.

I have been cutting for about 6 weeks, and though I'm getting a healthy amount of nutrition, I'm wondering if it's normal to feel so fatigued when cutting.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That can happen. Play with your body a bit, especially when cutting and you're depriving your body of things it wants. Try taking a day to eat a bunch of carbs... I noticed when I did that it would replenish my body, give me a bunch of new energy and just like a boost for a while. It's one of the things that leads me to believe in the "cheat day" system... not overly exaggerated, but still, your body needs some extra stuff once in a while to recoup.

Just try stuff, as long as you don't eat shyt for a week straight, eating a few extra carbs for a day won't hamper your cutting cycle.
 

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I think you are right. I'll try adding more carbs to my diet and maybe the occasional cheat day.

Thanks for the response.
 

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That happens to me when I train for boxing competitions.

Try taking a few days off from the gym but keep eating healthy.

In the past I have trained for competitions while studying for university final exams. It was not fun at all. I was mentally and physically drained all the time.

Now I listen to my body more carefully. Before I used to train through the pain. Not anymore though. I have learned that mental fatigue also leads to physical fatique.

Good luck.
 

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Well I have been doing 4 workout days per week + 3 days with cardio, so I guess it's no wonder I'm so lethargic. I'll try cutting down a bit and adding more carbs and see if it helps. Thanks again guys.
 

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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

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