I am not a shallow person, and have no God given right to be either. I was at the gym today and saw a female that was prob 50 - 75 lbs overweight, but she had a beautiul face, nice hair, and pretty eyes. Is it worth the time and energy to pursue her. I mean she is at the gym afterall. So it might be worth it to plant the seeds and see what happens. I think if she lost the weight she would be a 8.5 or a 9. Sure Ill get some interesting responses!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Fat Chicks at the Gym....
- Thread starter DonutMan
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
...game it! just don't tell your friends 
...But to be honest I think we should all keep practicing at all times. If she is there why not strike up a friendly conversation? or try some experimenting?
Thats all I'm about.. the more experience and knowledge I get under my belt the closer I get to getting all the girls I WANT.
I'm not about getting with ugs or fatties... I'm about getting with what I WANT.. But you said even though she is overweight she is attractive... well attractive is attractive. If you are attracted to someone, why not go for it?
But either way, there is nothing wrong with befriending ANYONE...
...But to be honest I think we should all keep practicing at all times. If she is there why not strike up a friendly conversation? or try some experimenting?
Thats all I'm about.. the more experience and knowledge I get under my belt the closer I get to getting all the girls I WANT.
I'm not about getting with ugs or fatties... I'm about getting with what I WANT.. But you said even though she is overweight she is attractive... well attractive is attractive. If you are attracted to someone, why not go for it?
But either way, there is nothing wrong with befriending ANYONE...
if she shows up consistently, then go for it.
If not, forget her...she's a fat pig.
I know girls who are obese and talk to their friends like, "I do EVERYTHING I can to lose weight...I eat healthy (once a month) and go to the gym! (once a month)"
fvcking losers.
If not, forget her...she's a fat pig.
I know girls who are obese and talk to their friends like, "I do EVERYTHING I can to lose weight...I eat healthy (once a month) and go to the gym! (once a month)"
fvcking losers.
joey2times
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What's even funnier is that these fat HOGS are usually very picky about what they think is attractive. A 300lb woman will usually not date a similar size guy.
My theory is that no matter how fat, ugly and disgusting a woman is, she'll always find some pathetic AFC who'll fvck her.
My theory is that no matter how fat, ugly and disgusting a woman is, she'll always find some pathetic AFC who'll fvck her.
If you're in shape- give her advice on slimming-down, and maybe even "coach" her. When she does lose some weight- she could be grateful, due to your efforts.......or betray you and cut loose.
Find out what kind of personality she has, and where her self-esteem level is at, now. That way- you can make a better call, as to which path to pursue.
Find out what kind of personality she has, and where her self-esteem level is at, now. That way- you can make a better call, as to which path to pursue.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
ha think of her as a penny stock
she might just rise in value- so you should try to keep her in your portfolio
or the stock gets delisted due to bankrupcy ie she starts bringing in KFC to eat as she labors on the treadmill
she might just rise in value- so you should try to keep her in your portfolio
or the stock gets delisted due to bankrupcy ie she starts bringing in KFC to eat as she labors on the treadmill
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
A few kind words from you might be the encentive that keeps her coming back! You've laid all the ground work so after she looses the weight you got a new hot girlfriend.
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
Yeah, I say be nicey nice to her and see what happens (with the weight issue). Or, if just insatiable horniness kicks in, you could always give it to her.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
hahaha... you guys are cold hearted.
dude who cares?? if she has big tits, and a decent face, then just do it now. don't hang around til she's skinny. besides that, if you don't hook up with her while she's fat, then she'll know you are shallow and only want the skinny version of her. **** HER NOW AND YOU CAN **** HER LATER
i've done my fair share of fatties (30-60 lbs overweight) and they are just as fun as the rest! in fact, one of the top 3 most beautiful vaginas i've ever seen was with this chubby chick from a club. omg i dream of it everyday. i want to eat it.
i've done my fair share of fatties (30-60 lbs overweight) and they are just as fun as the rest! in fact, one of the top 3 most beautiful vaginas i've ever seen was with this chubby chick from a club. omg i dream of it everyday. i want to eat it.
Talk to her and get her liking you. You don't have to bang her...just get her interested. Maybe she brings a friend one night and the fatty has talked you up and the friend might be interested then, if that ever happens you'll know pretty quick if the friend is interested and it won't take much effort on your part.
Maybe fatty already has a boyfriend but still talks you up to her friends?
Talk to her, you never know what doors it might open.
Maybe fatty already has a boyfriend but still talks you up to her friends?
Talk to her, you never know what doors it might open.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
hahahahahhhaharussell said:
Classic post!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
yea this is straight out of how i met your mother. I would only talk to her if i'd seen her like twice in a week or something so you know shes not just some fat lazy slob who decided she wanted to lose weight, gave up after a week and then ate all her feelings via a giant tub of chocalate ice cream while she feels sorry for herself watching the notebook.
I don't like fat people. Hot chicks are usually lazy and whiny enough as it is, let alone fat chicks. I need a girl that takes care of herself, its not because i'm shallow. Plus fat chicks are just nasty and sweaty (ok i'm a little shallow, but its for a reason).
Having said that it can't hurt to talk to her. If you think shes attractive, then do it, hhahahha just don't tell your friends. After all, you have to slay a few dragons before you get to the princess.
I don't like fat people. Hot chicks are usually lazy and whiny enough as it is, let alone fat chicks. I need a girl that takes care of herself, its not because i'm shallow. Plus fat chicks are just nasty and sweaty (ok i'm a little shallow, but its for a reason).
Having said that it can't hurt to talk to her. If you think shes attractive, then do it, hhahahha just don't tell your friends. After all, you have to slay a few dragons before you get to the princess.
Analyzeit
Senior Don Juan
Randallpink83 said:...game it! just don't tell your friends
Ain't that the truth