I am not a shallow person, and have no God given right to be either. I was at the gym today and saw a female that was prob 50 - 75 lbs overweight, but she had a beautiul face, nice hair, and pretty eyes. Is it worth the time and energy to pursue her. I mean she is at the gym afterall. So it might be worth it to plant the seeds and see what happens. I think if she lost the weight she would be a 8.5 or a 9. Sure Ill get some interesting responses!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Fat Chicks at the Gym....
- Thread starter DonutMan
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
...game it! just don't tell your friends 
...But to be honest I think we should all keep practicing at all times. If she is there why not strike up a friendly conversation? or try some experimenting?
Thats all I'm about.. the more experience and knowledge I get under my belt the closer I get to getting all the girls I WANT.
I'm not about getting with ugs or fatties... I'm about getting with what I WANT.. But you said even though she is overweight she is attractive... well attractive is attractive. If you are attracted to someone, why not go for it?
But either way, there is nothing wrong with befriending ANYONE...
...But to be honest I think we should all keep practicing at all times. If she is there why not strike up a friendly conversation? or try some experimenting?
Thats all I'm about.. the more experience and knowledge I get under my belt the closer I get to getting all the girls I WANT.
I'm not about getting with ugs or fatties... I'm about getting with what I WANT.. But you said even though she is overweight she is attractive... well attractive is attractive. If you are attracted to someone, why not go for it?
But either way, there is nothing wrong with befriending ANYONE...
if she shows up consistently, then go for it.
If not, forget her...she's a fat pig.
I know girls who are obese and talk to their friends like, "I do EVERYTHING I can to lose weight...I eat healthy (once a month) and go to the gym! (once a month)"
fvcking losers.
If not, forget her...she's a fat pig.
I know girls who are obese and talk to their friends like, "I do EVERYTHING I can to lose weight...I eat healthy (once a month) and go to the gym! (once a month)"
fvcking losers.
joey2times
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What's even funnier is that these fat HOGS are usually very picky about what they think is attractive. A 300lb woman will usually not date a similar size guy.
My theory is that no matter how fat, ugly and disgusting a woman is, she'll always find some pathetic AFC who'll fvck her.
My theory is that no matter how fat, ugly and disgusting a woman is, she'll always find some pathetic AFC who'll fvck her.
If you're in shape- give her advice on slimming-down, and maybe even "coach" her. When she does lose some weight- she could be grateful, due to your efforts.......or betray you and cut loose.
Find out what kind of personality she has, and where her self-esteem level is at, now. That way- you can make a better call, as to which path to pursue.
Find out what kind of personality she has, and where her self-esteem level is at, now. That way- you can make a better call, as to which path to pursue.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
ha think of her as a penny stock
she might just rise in value- so you should try to keep her in your portfolio
or the stock gets delisted due to bankrupcy ie she starts bringing in KFC to eat as she labors on the treadmill
she might just rise in value- so you should try to keep her in your portfolio
or the stock gets delisted due to bankrupcy ie she starts bringing in KFC to eat as she labors on the treadmill
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
A few kind words from you might be the encentive that keeps her coming back! You've laid all the ground work so after she looses the weight you got a new hot girlfriend.
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
Yeah, I say be nicey nice to her and see what happens (with the weight issue). Or, if just insatiable horniness kicks in, you could always give it to her.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
hahaha... you guys are cold hearted.
dude who cares?? if she has big tits, and a decent face, then just do it now. don't hang around til she's skinny. besides that, if you don't hook up with her while she's fat, then she'll know you are shallow and only want the skinny version of her. **** HER NOW AND YOU CAN **** HER LATER
i've done my fair share of fatties (30-60 lbs overweight) and they are just as fun as the rest! in fact, one of the top 3 most beautiful vaginas i've ever seen was with this chubby chick from a club. omg i dream of it everyday. i want to eat it.
i've done my fair share of fatties (30-60 lbs overweight) and they are just as fun as the rest! in fact, one of the top 3 most beautiful vaginas i've ever seen was with this chubby chick from a club. omg i dream of it everyday. i want to eat it.
Talk to her and get her liking you. You don't have to bang her...just get her interested. Maybe she brings a friend one night and the fatty has talked you up and the friend might be interested then, if that ever happens you'll know pretty quick if the friend is interested and it won't take much effort on your part.
Maybe fatty already has a boyfriend but still talks you up to her friends?
Talk to her, you never know what doors it might open.
Maybe fatty already has a boyfriend but still talks you up to her friends?
Talk to her, you never know what doors it might open.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
hahahahahhhaharussell said:
Classic post!!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
yea this is straight out of how i met your mother. I would only talk to her if i'd seen her like twice in a week or something so you know shes not just some fat lazy slob who decided she wanted to lose weight, gave up after a week and then ate all her feelings via a giant tub of chocalate ice cream while she feels sorry for herself watching the notebook.
I don't like fat people. Hot chicks are usually lazy and whiny enough as it is, let alone fat chicks. I need a girl that takes care of herself, its not because i'm shallow. Plus fat chicks are just nasty and sweaty (ok i'm a little shallow, but its for a reason).
Having said that it can't hurt to talk to her. If you think shes attractive, then do it, hhahahha just don't tell your friends. After all, you have to slay a few dragons before you get to the princess.
I don't like fat people. Hot chicks are usually lazy and whiny enough as it is, let alone fat chicks. I need a girl that takes care of herself, its not because i'm shallow. Plus fat chicks are just nasty and sweaty (ok i'm a little shallow, but its for a reason).
Having said that it can't hurt to talk to her. If you think shes attractive, then do it, hhahahha just don't tell your friends. After all, you have to slay a few dragons before you get to the princess.
Analyzeit
Senior Don Juan
Randallpink83 said:...game it! just don't tell your friends
Ain't that the truth