"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fat Chicks at the Gym....

DonutMan

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I am not a shallow person, and have no God given right to be either. I was at the gym today and saw a female that was prob 50 - 75 lbs overweight, but she had a beautiul face, nice hair, and pretty eyes. Is it worth the time and energy to pursue her. I mean she is at the gym afterall. So it might be worth it to plant the seeds and see what happens. I think if she lost the weight she would be a 8.5 or a 9. Sure Ill get some interesting responses!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Randallpink83

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...game it! just don't tell your friends :p






...But to be honest I think we should all keep practicing at all times. If she is there why not strike up a friendly conversation? or try some experimenting?

Thats all I'm about.. the more experience and knowledge I get under my belt the closer I get to getting all the girls I WANT.

I'm not about getting with ugs or fatties... I'm about getting with what I WANT.. But you said even though she is overweight she is attractive... well attractive is attractive. If you are attracted to someone, why not go for it?

But either way, there is nothing wrong with befriending ANYONE...
 

Potbelly

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if she shows up consistently, then go for it.

If not, forget her...she's a fat pig.

I know girls who are obese and talk to their friends like, "I do EVERYTHING I can to lose weight...I eat healthy (once a month) and go to the gym! (once a month)"

fvcking losers.
 

joey2times

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What's even funnier is that these fat HOGS are usually very picky about what they think is attractive. A 300lb woman will usually not date a similar size guy.

My theory is that no matter how fat, ugly and disgusting a woman is, she'll always find some pathetic AFC who'll fvck her.
 

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If you're in shape- give her advice on slimming-down, and maybe even "coach" her. When she does lose some weight- she could be grateful, due to your efforts.......or betray you and cut loose.

Find out what kind of personality she has, and where her self-esteem level is at, now. That way- you can make a better call, as to which path to pursue.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DonJuan11

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make friends with her. if she loses the 75 lbs and turns hot, you can always step it up.

if not, she might have friends for you to sleep with.
 

3countriesPlan

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ha think of her as a penny stock
she might just rise in value- so you should try to keep her in your portfolio
or the stock gets delisted due to bankrupcy ie she starts bringing in KFC to eat as she labors on the treadmill
 

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A few kind words from you might be the encentive that keeps her coming back! You've laid all the ground work so after she looses the weight you got a new hot girlfriend.
 

Lord Shinra

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Yeah, I say be nicey nice to her and see what happens (with the weight issue). Or, if just insatiable horniness kicks in, you could always give it to her.
 

SamePendo

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Focus on getting bl0wjobs from her.


Treat her like the overweight person she is. Don't treat her like the hot face she has.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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russell

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dude who cares?? if she has big tits, and a decent face, then just do it now. don't hang around til she's skinny. besides that, if you don't hook up with her while she's fat, then she'll know you are shallow and only want the skinny version of her. **** HER NOW AND YOU CAN **** HER LATER

i've done my fair share of fatties (30-60 lbs overweight) and they are just as fun as the rest! in fact, one of the top 3 most beautiful vaginas i've ever seen was with this chubby chick from a club. omg i dream of it everyday. i want to eat it.
 

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Talk to her and get her liking you. You don't have to bang her...just get her interested. Maybe she brings a friend one night and the fatty has talked you up and the friend might be interested then, if that ever happens you'll know pretty quick if the friend is interested and it won't take much effort on your part.

Maybe fatty already has a boyfriend but still talks you up to her friends?

Talk to her, you never know what doors it might open.
 

Solomon

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russell said:
dude who cares?? if she has big tits, and a decent face, then just do it now. don't hang around til she's skinny. besides that, if you don't hook up with her while she's fat, then she'll know you are shallow and only want the skinny version of her. **** HER NOW AND YOU CAN **** HER LATER

i've done my fair share of fatties (30-60 lbs overweight) and they are just as fun as the rest! in fact, one of the top 3 most beautiful vaginas i've ever seen was with this chubby chick from a club. omg i dream of it everyday. i want to eat it.
hahahahahhhaha

Classic post!!
 

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haha you ever watch HIMYM(How i met your mother).

Invest in her now, and when the investment is ready to be collected and dividends shared all your shareholders will be "STRAIGHT UP" happy :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yea this is straight out of how i met your mother. I would only talk to her if i'd seen her like twice in a week or something so you know shes not just some fat lazy slob who decided she wanted to lose weight, gave up after a week and then ate all her feelings via a giant tub of chocalate ice cream while she feels sorry for herself watching the notebook.

I don't like fat people. Hot chicks are usually lazy and whiny enough as it is, let alone fat chicks. I need a girl that takes care of herself, its not because i'm shallow. Plus fat chicks are just nasty and sweaty (ok i'm a little shallow, but its for a reason).

Having said that it can't hurt to talk to her. If you think shes attractive, then do it, hhahahha just don't tell your friends. After all, you have to slay a few dragons before you get to the princess.
 
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