I am not a shallow person, and have no God given right to be either. I was at the gym today and saw a female that was prob 50 - 75 lbs overweight, but she had a beautiul face, nice hair, and pretty eyes. Is it worth the time and energy to pursue her. I mean she is at the gym afterall. So it might be worth it to plant the seeds and see what happens. I think if she lost the weight she would be a 8.5 or a 9. Sure Ill get some interesting responses!
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Fat Chicks at the Gym....
- Thread starter DonutMan
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
...game it! just don't tell your friends 
...But to be honest I think we should all keep practicing at all times. If she is there why not strike up a friendly conversation? or try some experimenting?
Thats all I'm about.. the more experience and knowledge I get under my belt the closer I get to getting all the girls I WANT.
I'm not about getting with ugs or fatties... I'm about getting with what I WANT.. But you said even though she is overweight she is attractive... well attractive is attractive. If you are attracted to someone, why not go for it?
But either way, there is nothing wrong with befriending ANYONE...
...But to be honest I think we should all keep practicing at all times. If she is there why not strike up a friendly conversation? or try some experimenting?
Thats all I'm about.. the more experience and knowledge I get under my belt the closer I get to getting all the girls I WANT.
I'm not about getting with ugs or fatties... I'm about getting with what I WANT.. But you said even though she is overweight she is attractive... well attractive is attractive. If you are attracted to someone, why not go for it?
But either way, there is nothing wrong with befriending ANYONE...
if she shows up consistently, then go for it.
If not, forget her...she's a fat pig.
I know girls who are obese and talk to their friends like, "I do EVERYTHING I can to lose weight...I eat healthy (once a month) and go to the gym! (once a month)"
fvcking losers.
If not, forget her...she's a fat pig.
I know girls who are obese and talk to their friends like, "I do EVERYTHING I can to lose weight...I eat healthy (once a month) and go to the gym! (once a month)"
fvcking losers.
joey2times
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What's even funnier is that these fat HOGS are usually very picky about what they think is attractive. A 300lb woman will usually not date a similar size guy.
My theory is that no matter how fat, ugly and disgusting a woman is, she'll always find some pathetic AFC who'll fvck her.
My theory is that no matter how fat, ugly and disgusting a woman is, she'll always find some pathetic AFC who'll fvck her.
If you're in shape- give her advice on slimming-down, and maybe even "coach" her. When she does lose some weight- she could be grateful, due to your efforts.......or betray you and cut loose.
Find out what kind of personality she has, and where her self-esteem level is at, now. That way- you can make a better call, as to which path to pursue.
Find out what kind of personality she has, and where her self-esteem level is at, now. That way- you can make a better call, as to which path to pursue.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
ha think of her as a penny stock
she might just rise in value- so you should try to keep her in your portfolio
or the stock gets delisted due to bankrupcy ie she starts bringing in KFC to eat as she labors on the treadmill
she might just rise in value- so you should try to keep her in your portfolio
or the stock gets delisted due to bankrupcy ie she starts bringing in KFC to eat as she labors on the treadmill
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
A few kind words from you might be the encentive that keeps her coming back! You've laid all the ground work so after she looses the weight you got a new hot girlfriend.
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
Yeah, I say be nicey nice to her and see what happens (with the weight issue). Or, if just insatiable horniness kicks in, you could always give it to her.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
hahaha... you guys are cold hearted.
dude who cares?? if she has big tits, and a decent face, then just do it now. don't hang around til she's skinny. besides that, if you don't hook up with her while she's fat, then she'll know you are shallow and only want the skinny version of her. **** HER NOW AND YOU CAN **** HER LATER
i've done my fair share of fatties (30-60 lbs overweight) and they are just as fun as the rest! in fact, one of the top 3 most beautiful vaginas i've ever seen was with this chubby chick from a club. omg i dream of it everyday. i want to eat it.
i've done my fair share of fatties (30-60 lbs overweight) and they are just as fun as the rest! in fact, one of the top 3 most beautiful vaginas i've ever seen was with this chubby chick from a club. omg i dream of it everyday. i want to eat it.
Talk to her and get her liking you. You don't have to bang her...just get her interested. Maybe she brings a friend one night and the fatty has talked you up and the friend might be interested then, if that ever happens you'll know pretty quick if the friend is interested and it won't take much effort on your part.
Maybe fatty already has a boyfriend but still talks you up to her friends?
Talk to her, you never know what doors it might open.
Maybe fatty already has a boyfriend but still talks you up to her friends?
Talk to her, you never know what doors it might open.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
hahahahahhhaharussell said:
Classic post!!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
yea this is straight out of how i met your mother. I would only talk to her if i'd seen her like twice in a week or something so you know shes not just some fat lazy slob who decided she wanted to lose weight, gave up after a week and then ate all her feelings via a giant tub of chocalate ice cream while she feels sorry for herself watching the notebook.
I don't like fat people. Hot chicks are usually lazy and whiny enough as it is, let alone fat chicks. I need a girl that takes care of herself, its not because i'm shallow. Plus fat chicks are just nasty and sweaty (ok i'm a little shallow, but its for a reason).
Having said that it can't hurt to talk to her. If you think shes attractive, then do it, hhahahha just don't tell your friends. After all, you have to slay a few dragons before you get to the princess.
I don't like fat people. Hot chicks are usually lazy and whiny enough as it is, let alone fat chicks. I need a girl that takes care of herself, its not because i'm shallow. Plus fat chicks are just nasty and sweaty (ok i'm a little shallow, but its for a reason).
Having said that it can't hurt to talk to her. If you think shes attractive, then do it, hhahahha just don't tell your friends. After all, you have to slay a few dragons before you get to the princess.
Analyzeit
Senior Don Juan
Randallpink83 said:...game it! just don't tell your friends
Ain't that the truth