“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fasted hot/ cold I have ever seen

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I swear in my earlier career I was the king of having a chick go from hot to cold. While this has mostly gone away, i still find myself frustrated from time to time. Take the case that happened last night.

Last week I meet a cute chick at the bar. I got her number and she seemed very excited to get my number. I called her the next day, and we chilled for a few hours. it went well. she seemed to have a good time and wanted to hang out again. Weds I tried to hang, but it didn't work out and she even counter offered. Cool. Thursday we both were going to head out with our respective groups of friends, so we meet up. After meeting up, i am literally playing tonsil hockey than...suddenly she goes to the bathroom, says she has to go, and leaves without a trace. I shoot her some messages to see whats up, nothing. Suffice to say I didn't press the issue, and probably will end up deleting the number.

so what the hell gives? How can you get a chick who is prime to fvck, to go so 180. Several other instances have gone the same way. A chick seems ( key word) interested, I get the number, than she doesn't want anything to do with me.

I love the single life, but my god this is becoming work. Work ain't fun! Gotta step it up. Last weekend I got 5 phone numbers, and it seemed 2 would have worked out. Now its 0 fer 5. sheesh!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You might be a bad kisser. Or if you're not bad then she personally didn't like the way you were doing it.

I don't know that's just a guess.
 
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Don't blame yourself. My guess is that she went to the bathroom to check up to see if it's all good & ready to go down there, but something went wrong. Hence she left suddenly cos she was embarrassed.
 
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Jitterbug said:
Don't blame yourself. My guess is that she went to the bathroom to check up to see if it's all good & ready to go down there, but something went wrong. Hence she left suddenly cos she was embarrassed.
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id normally agree, but she still hasn't gotten back to me. going...going...goonne! Ive made it a habit to not chase. I'd be shocked if she ever contacts me again.

got two numbers last night...both from chicks with boyfriends. more FAIL!

My all wheel drive is running a few flats here...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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update: turns out someone spiked her and her friends drink. they both experienced weird symptoms at the same exact time, so she ( wisely) bailed on the situation. She apologized today for bailing too, which is a good sign. The lesson here is the prevalence of date rape drugs on the bar/ club scene, and probably how many 'men' use them to get women. Sad that people can't focus on improvement and work hard for what they want, but that is reality.
 
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synergy1 said:
update: turns out someone spiked her and her friends drink. they both experienced weird symptoms at the same exact time, so she ( wisely) bailed on the situation. She apologized today for bailing too, which is a good sign. The lesson here is the prevalence of date rape drugs on the bar/ club scene, and probably how many 'men' use them to get women. Sad that people can't focus on improvement and work hard for what they want, but that is reality.
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Here's the thing I don't understand about date rape drugs...

So a girl's at the club with her friends....I spike a girl's drink...and then what? I just toss her over my shoulder and carry her out the bar...and no one notices?

That's why I always thought the date rape drug was a bit of an urban myth. I know it exists. And I've heard stories of girls going on DATES with a guy and getting drugged. But in a crowded club...if some dude tried that on one of my girl friends, my group would be aware of the change in her demeanor. And we'd definitely be aware of the creepy dude trying to drag her out of the bar.

I think it happens. But I think it's overblown.
 
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It never happened.

Girl A: I have a headache.

Girl B: I have a headache.

Girl C: I heard something on the news about date rape drugs.

A, B and C: OMG!!!!!!!!!!

Morons.
 
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lol

That actually makes a lot of sense. After all, a woman's victimhood is sacrosanct. No one would ever dare question it. We're all supposed to be motivated to get on our white horse after hearing such a story and want to come to her rescue. And if we do dare question her improbable story, then we won't "get any." lol
 
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