"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fasted hot/ cold I have ever seen

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I swear in my earlier career I was the king of having a chick go from hot to cold. While this has mostly gone away, i still find myself frustrated from time to time. Take the case that happened last night.

Last week I meet a cute chick at the bar. I got her number and she seemed very excited to get my number. I called her the next day, and we chilled for a few hours. it went well. she seemed to have a good time and wanted to hang out again. Weds I tried to hang, but it didn't work out and she even counter offered. Cool. Thursday we both were going to head out with our respective groups of friends, so we meet up. After meeting up, i am literally playing tonsil hockey than...suddenly she goes to the bathroom, says she has to go, and leaves without a trace. I shoot her some messages to see whats up, nothing. Suffice to say I didn't press the issue, and probably will end up deleting the number.

so what the hell gives? How can you get a chick who is prime to fvck, to go so 180. Several other instances have gone the same way. A chick seems ( key word) interested, I get the number, than she doesn't want anything to do with me.

I love the single life, but my god this is becoming work. Work ain't fun! Gotta step it up. Last weekend I got 5 phone numbers, and it seemed 2 would have worked out. Now its 0 fer 5. sheesh!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You might be a bad kisser. Or if you're not bad then she personally didn't like the way you were doing it.

I don't know that's just a guess.
 
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Don't blame yourself. My guess is that she went to the bathroom to check up to see if it's all good & ready to go down there, but something went wrong. Hence she left suddenly cos she was embarrassed.
 
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Jitterbug said:
Don't blame yourself. My guess is that she went to the bathroom to check up to see if it's all good & ready to go down there, but something went wrong. Hence she left suddenly cos she was embarrassed.
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id normally agree, but she still hasn't gotten back to me. going...going...goonne! Ive made it a habit to not chase. I'd be shocked if she ever contacts me again.

got two numbers last night...both from chicks with boyfriends. more FAIL!

My all wheel drive is running a few flats here...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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update: turns out someone spiked her and her friends drink. they both experienced weird symptoms at the same exact time, so she ( wisely) bailed on the situation. She apologized today for bailing too, which is a good sign. The lesson here is the prevalence of date rape drugs on the bar/ club scene, and probably how many 'men' use them to get women. Sad that people can't focus on improvement and work hard for what they want, but that is reality.
 
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synergy1 said:
update: turns out someone spiked her and her friends drink. they both experienced weird symptoms at the same exact time, so she ( wisely) bailed on the situation. She apologized today for bailing too, which is a good sign. The lesson here is the prevalence of date rape drugs on the bar/ club scene, and probably how many 'men' use them to get women. Sad that people can't focus on improvement and work hard for what they want, but that is reality.
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Here's the thing I don't understand about date rape drugs...

So a girl's at the club with her friends....I spike a girl's drink...and then what? I just toss her over my shoulder and carry her out the bar...and no one notices?

That's why I always thought the date rape drug was a bit of an urban myth. I know it exists. And I've heard stories of girls going on DATES with a guy and getting drugged. But in a crowded club...if some dude tried that on one of my girl friends, my group would be aware of the change in her demeanor. And we'd definitely be aware of the creepy dude trying to drag her out of the bar.

I think it happens. But I think it's overblown.
 
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It never happened.

Girl A: I have a headache.

Girl B: I have a headache.

Girl C: I heard something on the news about date rape drugs.

A, B and C: OMG!!!!!!!!!!

Morons.
 
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lol

That actually makes a lot of sense. After all, a woman's victimhood is sacrosanct. No one would ever dare question it. We're all supposed to be motivated to get on our white horse after hearing such a story and want to come to her rescue. And if we do dare question her improbable story, then we won't "get any." lol
 
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