"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i know... i know... i'm an afc computer game nut that never imagined he would be asking for something like this but....

howabout along with health/fitness, we get a grooming/fashion forum?

like what the hell is 'flat front' pants? what's the difference between wingtip, cap toe, etc shoe?

do you have to roll up the sleeves on your button down if it is not tucked in?

etc....

i know... i know....

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This could be interesting...
 
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i know!

but as i come to read up on this dj stuff, it seems that a great many things that i have despised in the past ends up being CRUCIAL to success with women.

i have always felt very comfortable just doing my own thing and not caring about society's mores and whatnot.

i DESPISED status symbols.

and men's fashion magazines?! are you fing kidding me?!

but it seems that a great deal of things that i don't care about are VITALLY important to get women.

i think most of all of this is bullshyt.... but it's bullshyt that women care about.

and so, to get women, i am willing to entertain the bullshyt.

if that's the price of admission, i'll pony up.

but it may be bullshyt but it's tricky stuff.... so if you're gonna jump into the slop, better know what you're doin'.... and so my request.

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I'd love to see that too, but it probably won't happen, so meanwhile try using a search for "grooming" and "fashion" for example. There have been some very good posts in the past.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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