"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Delta

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i know... i know... i'm an afc computer game nut that never imagined he would be asking for something like this but....

howabout along with health/fitness, we get a grooming/fashion forum?

like what the hell is 'flat front' pants? what's the difference between wingtip, cap toe, etc shoe?

do you have to roll up the sleeves on your button down if it is not tucked in?

etc....

i know... i know....

delta
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This could be interesting...
 

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i know!

but as i come to read up on this dj stuff, it seems that a great many things that i have despised in the past ends up being CRUCIAL to success with women.

i have always felt very comfortable just doing my own thing and not caring about society's mores and whatnot.

i DESPISED status symbols.

and men's fashion magazines?! are you fing kidding me?!

but it seems that a great deal of things that i don't care about are VITALLY important to get women.

i think most of all of this is bullshyt.... but it's bullshyt that women care about.

and so, to get women, i am willing to entertain the bullshyt.

if that's the price of admission, i'll pony up.

but it may be bullshyt but it's tricky stuff.... so if you're gonna jump into the slop, better know what you're doin'.... and so my request.

delta
 

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I'd love to see that too, but it probably won't happen, so meanwhile try using a search for "grooming" and "fashion" for example. There have been some very good posts in the past.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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