"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Delta

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i know... i know... i'm an afc computer game nut that never imagined he would be asking for something like this but....

howabout along with health/fitness, we get a grooming/fashion forum?

like what the hell is 'flat front' pants? what's the difference between wingtip, cap toe, etc shoe?

do you have to roll up the sleeves on your button down if it is not tucked in?

etc....

i know... i know....

delta
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This could be interesting...
 

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i know!

but as i come to read up on this dj stuff, it seems that a great many things that i have despised in the past ends up being CRUCIAL to success with women.

i have always felt very comfortable just doing my own thing and not caring about society's mores and whatnot.

i DESPISED status symbols.

and men's fashion magazines?! are you fing kidding me?!

but it seems that a great deal of things that i don't care about are VITALLY important to get women.

i think most of all of this is bullshyt.... but it's bullshyt that women care about.

and so, to get women, i am willing to entertain the bullshyt.

if that's the price of admission, i'll pony up.

but it may be bullshyt but it's tricky stuff.... so if you're gonna jump into the slop, better know what you're doin'.... and so my request.

delta
 

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I'd love to see that too, but it probably won't happen, so meanwhile try using a search for "grooming" and "fashion" for example. There have been some very good posts in the past.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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