"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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After reading the "Newbie Dumba$$es" thread, I've been inspired to create a list.

A list of situations and the optimal response. These are general, and there are specific cases for some, but this is again, general.


How Do I Know If She Likes Me? Read the bible. Judge Body Language. Hang out with the broad and put a move on her.

How Do I Get This Girl Back? By doing the exact same sh*t you did to get her in the first place. I'm betting you didn't confess your undying emotions for her then. Why should you now? Again, read the bible.

How Do I Get Over Her? You get over one by getting on another. Simple.

How Should I Handle This Situation? With confidence and poise. Whatever you do, do it with style and grace. Don't let her take advantage of you. Be smart, charming, confident and firm. All this after you read the Bible.

What should I have said? Whatever the hell you wanted to. Read the Bible on conversation techniques, cold approaches, whatever. Contact one of the more, suave, members of this forum if they offer. Don't post a pointless thread like the 100's we've seen already.

She says she wants to be with me, but...: If there is a BUT, then you need to fix it. Excuses are retarded. Pointless. Just a reason for you to not do something. If the excuse is being made by her, call her out on it. Then move on. If it's being made by you. Fix it.


Anything else I need to address? PM me or post it on here.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Read the damned bible.

She was interested, but then all of a sudden she turned cold
Slap yourself, and figure out why she went cold. Was it something you did, did the situation change, perhaps you're overlooking, misread her or something.
 
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What does she think about me, should I be thinking about her? What is she doing right now? I bet she is with some other guy...

Calm the fvck down. The only person you have control over is yourself. Never think about what the girl is doing at any certain moment, instead focus on your goals and desires. Sit down and set a plan for yourself. Write a list of what you want to achieve and go out and start at it. Girls are secondary, your life is primary.

Read the bible.
 
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What if she liked me, but i said i liked her, then she said she didnt like me, then i still liked her, and wanted her to like me?

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grow a pair
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Indeed. Reading the bible is the first step. Gives you some guidance. The only way to get better, however, is to do the sh*t that you read about.
 
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I feel like bringing this one back up.
 
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haha sounds like a plan. Anything we can to get these type of questions out of here. I'm tired of clicking on an article, expecting to find a decent question or comment...instead I find

"How do I talk to her"
 
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Ha I like it
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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