Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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After reading the "Newbie Dumba$$es" thread, I've been inspired to create a list.

A list of situations and the optimal response. These are general, and there are specific cases for some, but this is again, general.


How Do I Know If She Likes Me? Read the bible. Judge Body Language. Hang out with the broad and put a move on her.

How Do I Get This Girl Back? By doing the exact same sh*t you did to get her in the first place. I'm betting you didn't confess your undying emotions for her then. Why should you now? Again, read the bible.

How Do I Get Over Her? You get over one by getting on another. Simple.

How Should I Handle This Situation? With confidence and poise. Whatever you do, do it with style and grace. Don't let her take advantage of you. Be smart, charming, confident and firm. All this after you read the Bible.

What should I have said? Whatever the hell you wanted to. Read the Bible on conversation techniques, cold approaches, whatever. Contact one of the more, suave, members of this forum if they offer. Don't post a pointless thread like the 100's we've seen already.

She says she wants to be with me, but...: If there is a BUT, then you need to fix it. Excuses are retarded. Pointless. Just a reason for you to not do something. If the excuse is being made by her, call her out on it. Then move on. If it's being made by you. Fix it.


Anything else I need to address? PM me or post it on here.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't know how to..
Read the damned bible.

She was interested, but then all of a sudden she turned cold
Slap yourself, and figure out why she went cold. Was it something you did, did the situation change, perhaps you're overlooking, misread her or something.
 
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What does she think about me, should I be thinking about her? What is she doing right now? I bet she is with some other guy...

Calm the fvck down. The only person you have control over is yourself. Never think about what the girl is doing at any certain moment, instead focus on your goals and desires. Sit down and set a plan for yourself. Write a list of what you want to achieve and go out and start at it. Girls are secondary, your life is primary.

Read the bible.
 
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What if she liked me, but i said i liked her, then she said she didnt like me, then i still liked her, and wanted her to like me?

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grow a pair
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Indeed. Reading the bible is the first step. Gives you some guidance. The only way to get better, however, is to do the sh*t that you read about.
 
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I feel like bringing this one back up.
 
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haha sounds like a plan. Anything we can to get these type of questions out of here. I'm tired of clicking on an article, expecting to find a decent question or comment...instead I find

"How do I talk to her"
 
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Ha I like it
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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