"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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After reading the "Newbie Dumba$$es" thread, I've been inspired to create a list.

A list of situations and the optimal response. These are general, and there are specific cases for some, but this is again, general.


How Do I Know If She Likes Me? Read the bible. Judge Body Language. Hang out with the broad and put a move on her.

How Do I Get This Girl Back? By doing the exact same sh*t you did to get her in the first place. I'm betting you didn't confess your undying emotions for her then. Why should you now? Again, read the bible.

How Do I Get Over Her? You get over one by getting on another. Simple.

How Should I Handle This Situation? With confidence and poise. Whatever you do, do it with style and grace. Don't let her take advantage of you. Be smart, charming, confident and firm. All this after you read the Bible.

What should I have said? Whatever the hell you wanted to. Read the Bible on conversation techniques, cold approaches, whatever. Contact one of the more, suave, members of this forum if they offer. Don't post a pointless thread like the 100's we've seen already.

She says she wants to be with me, but...: If there is a BUT, then you need to fix it. Excuses are retarded. Pointless. Just a reason for you to not do something. If the excuse is being made by her, call her out on it. Then move on. If it's being made by you. Fix it.


Anything else I need to address? PM me or post it on here.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don't know how to..
Read the damned bible.

She was interested, but then all of a sudden she turned cold
Slap yourself, and figure out why she went cold. Was it something you did, did the situation change, perhaps you're overlooking, misread her or something.
 
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What does she think about me, should I be thinking about her? What is she doing right now? I bet she is with some other guy...

Calm the fvck down. The only person you have control over is yourself. Never think about what the girl is doing at any certain moment, instead focus on your goals and desires. Sit down and set a plan for yourself. Write a list of what you want to achieve and go out and start at it. Girls are secondary, your life is primary.

Read the bible.
 
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What if she liked me, but i said i liked her, then she said she didnt like me, then i still liked her, and wanted her to like me?

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grow a pair
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Indeed. Reading the bible is the first step. Gives you some guidance. The only way to get better, however, is to do the sh*t that you read about.
 
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I feel like bringing this one back up.
 
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haha sounds like a plan. Anything we can to get these type of questions out of here. I'm tired of clicking on an article, expecting to find a decent question or comment...instead I find

"How do I talk to her"
 
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Ha I like it
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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