"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
can you grow it fully or is it joe dirt white-trash like?
if you can one in that is full and has volume, then do it.
do you have a double chin? if so try to avoid a goatee ( i have a double chin and i thought it was cool til i saw it in a photograph. it looked like i had a hairy ass on my face)
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
If you can pull it off without looking patchy, then go for it, otherwise, you look like trailor trash.
I've done the look, it's different and gets people's attention.
I shave on Monday morning for work, let it grow out the rest of the week, trim it with a clipper to achieve a clean, kempt stubble look for Friday/Saturday nites and repeat the weekly cycle.
My co-workers think I look alot younger with my stubble shaved off. Everyone has their opinions. Do what works for you.
Try it, it's very GQ. Look at the most recent GQ's Colin and Jude both have major stubble going on. Try to mimick their look.
Cheers!
Eric
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Point is: Do whatever you like. Some girls like it, some won't. Most girls will tell you to shave but then turn around and are attracted to a guy with some facial hair.. Go figure..
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Wrong. Most girls will TELL you they like the clean shaven look. What women say and what they want are two totally different things. Look at caveman's post. His observation is 100% correct.Originally posted by DeathDealer
Most girls like the clean shaven look.
Remember, women don't really know what they want, so don't listen to them.
Go with what you want man. If you like having a beard, grow a beard. If you like it clean, shave.