"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
can you grow it fully or is it joe dirt white-trash like?
if you can one in that is full and has volume, then do it.
do you have a double chin? if so try to avoid a goatee ( i have a double chin and i thought it was cool til i saw it in a photograph. it looked like i had a hairy ass on my face)
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
If you can pull it off without looking patchy, then go for it, otherwise, you look like trailor trash.
I've done the look, it's different and gets people's attention.
I shave on Monday morning for work, let it grow out the rest of the week, trim it with a clipper to achieve a clean, kempt stubble look for Friday/Saturday nites and repeat the weekly cycle.
My co-workers think I look alot younger with my stubble shaved off. Everyone has their opinions. Do what works for you.
Try it, it's very GQ. Look at the most recent GQ's Colin and Jude both have major stubble going on. Try to mimick their look.
Cheers!
Eric
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Point is: Do whatever you like. Some girls like it, some won't. Most girls will tell you to shave but then turn around and are attracted to a guy with some facial hair.. Go figure..
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Wrong. Most girls will TELL you they like the clean shaven look. What women say and what they want are two totally different things. Look at caveman's post. His observation is 100% correct.Originally posted by DeathDealer
Most girls like the clean shaven look.
Remember, women don't really know what they want, so don't listen to them.
Go with what you want man. If you like having a beard, grow a beard. If you like it clean, shave.