"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Fenderules
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can you grow it fully or is it joe dirt white-trash like?
if you can one in that is full and has volume, then do it.
do you have a double chin? if so try to avoid a goatee ( i have a double chin and i thought it was cool til i saw it in a photograph. it looked like i had a hairy ass on my face)
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
If you can pull it off without looking patchy, then go for it, otherwise, you look like trailor trash.
I've done the look, it's different and gets people's attention.
I shave on Monday morning for work, let it grow out the rest of the week, trim it with a clipper to achieve a clean, kempt stubble look for Friday/Saturday nites and repeat the weekly cycle.
My co-workers think I look alot younger with my stubble shaved off. Everyone has their opinions. Do what works for you.
Try it, it's very GQ. Look at the most recent GQ's Colin and Jude both have major stubble going on. Try to mimick their look.
Cheers!
Eric
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Point is: Do whatever you like. Some girls like it, some won't. Most girls will tell you to shave but then turn around and are attracted to a guy with some facial hair.. Go figure..
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Wrong. Most girls will TELL you they like the clean shaven look. What women say and what they want are two totally different things. Look at caveman's post. His observation is 100% correct.Originally posted by DeathDealer
Most girls like the clean shaven look.
Remember, women don't really know what they want, so don't listen to them.
Go with what you want man. If you like having a beard, grow a beard. If you like it clean, shave.