"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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facial hair in high school?

shark

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Well, I'm having trouble deciding...

Clean cut?
Some facial hair/rough look?
good amount of facial hair?

Some girls love me with some facial hair i'm told, but others somtimes tell me to shave and how i look better without facial hair.

What do you think most ladies in H.S. will prefer? I don't really mind..i just like some facial hair b/c it makes me look a little older?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dirtyvibe

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im 18 in like 2 months and i have no facial hair yet (im white). i love it =) it would suck to have to shave every other day.
 

Kidd

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Most ladies prefer that you dont have facial hair.

That doesent stop me.

If you LIKE facial hair, then keep it.
 

Smooth Player 056

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I would shave it cuz i see tonz of these HS kids runnin around with what looks like DIRT on their upper lip. Just shave it until it becomes more refined and thicker
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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im 18 and i still cant imagine a beard before next summer, while i know kids that had to shave since grade 7, and some white people too.
 

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Ive had to shave since I was 12 or 13, at 16 i can grow a full beard. I love my facial hair but i got sent home last week and was told i couldnt come back unless i had a shave :mad:
 

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Originally posted by Bakesta
Ive had to shave since I was 12 or 13, at 16 i can grow a full beard. I love my facial hair but i got sent home last week and was told i couldnt come back unless i had a shave :mad:
has england become a nazi regime?! you don't have the right to wear a beard?!
 

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Originally posted by shark
Well, I'm having trouble deciding...

Clean cut?
Some facial hair/rough look?
good amount of facial hair?

Some girls love me with some facial hair i'm told, but others somtimes tell me to shave and how i look better without facial hair.

What do you think most ladies in H.S. will prefer? I don't really mind..i just like some facial hair b/c it makes me look a little older?
I'm sorry; I thought you were a DJ? You haven't been reading your Bible have you?

Because the last time I check, real men don't care about what women will think or prefer. Fvck them ho's in what they prefer. It ain't about them. Its about you and what you like. And if thats even the case find a girl that does like it. Man...

Do what you want man. If you like it because it makes you look older then do it. God :rolleyes: ...

Don't let other peoples taste and likes effect your decisions. Become a MAN and make your own decisions without outside influences.
 

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Re: Re: facial hair in high school?

Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
I'm sorry; I thought you were a DJ? You haven't been reading your Bible have you?

Because the last time I check, real men don't care about what women will think or prefer. Fvck them ho's in what they prefer. It ain't about them. Its about you and what you like. And if thats even the case find a girl that does like it. Man...

Do what you want man. If you like it because it makes you look older then do it. God :rolleyes: ...

Don't let other peoples taste and likes effect your decisions. Become a MAN and make your own decisions without outside influences.
Although its a great cliche "not to care", the truth is we all care. This is the reason you wake up brush your teeth, take a shower and put on fresh clothes. He just wants some opinions, no need to resent.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Facial hair makes you look older, though not necessarily better.

"Bum Fluff" makes you look like an idiot.

I shaved regulary until I was 17 and realised that not shaving made me look older so I could get into clubs to drink (18 over here is the drinking age).

I now have a goatee that looks pretty cool, and I have done for the last two years or so. Could have been longer actually, can't quite remember. Sometimes I shave it off, when I feel like it. Do what you feel comfortable with.

In your case, do what you want to do. I'd keep it myself. Makes you different in a good way (different in a bad way is, eg, goths), since most highschoolers shave.

Asian dude - shave the bum fluff. It'll take a while before you can grow a "proper" beard.

I'd also do a search. It's been covered many times before, so see what others have written.
 
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