"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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facial hair in high school?

shark

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Well, I'm having trouble deciding...

Clean cut?
Some facial hair/rough look?
good amount of facial hair?

Some girls love me with some facial hair i'm told, but others somtimes tell me to shave and how i look better without facial hair.

What do you think most ladies in H.S. will prefer? I don't really mind..i just like some facial hair b/c it makes me look a little older?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dirtyvibe

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im 18 in like 2 months and i have no facial hair yet (im white). i love it =) it would suck to have to shave every other day.
 

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Most ladies prefer that you dont have facial hair.

That doesent stop me.

If you LIKE facial hair, then keep it.
 

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I would shave it cuz i see tonz of these HS kids runnin around with what looks like DIRT on their upper lip. Just shave it until it becomes more refined and thicker
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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im 18 and i still cant imagine a beard before next summer, while i know kids that had to shave since grade 7, and some white people too.
 

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Ive had to shave since I was 12 or 13, at 16 i can grow a full beard. I love my facial hair but i got sent home last week and was told i couldnt come back unless i had a shave :mad:
 

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Originally posted by Bakesta
Ive had to shave since I was 12 or 13, at 16 i can grow a full beard. I love my facial hair but i got sent home last week and was told i couldnt come back unless i had a shave :mad:
has england become a nazi regime?! you don't have the right to wear a beard?!
 

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Originally posted by shark
Well, I'm having trouble deciding...

Clean cut?
Some facial hair/rough look?
good amount of facial hair?

Some girls love me with some facial hair i'm told, but others somtimes tell me to shave and how i look better without facial hair.

What do you think most ladies in H.S. will prefer? I don't really mind..i just like some facial hair b/c it makes me look a little older?
I'm sorry; I thought you were a DJ? You haven't been reading your Bible have you?

Because the last time I check, real men don't care about what women will think or prefer. Fvck them ho's in what they prefer. It ain't about them. Its about you and what you like. And if thats even the case find a girl that does like it. Man...

Do what you want man. If you like it because it makes you look older then do it. God :rolleyes: ...

Don't let other peoples taste and likes effect your decisions. Become a MAN and make your own decisions without outside influences.
 

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Re: Re: facial hair in high school?

Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
I'm sorry; I thought you were a DJ? You haven't been reading your Bible have you?

Because the last time I check, real men don't care about what women will think or prefer. Fvck them ho's in what they prefer. It ain't about them. Its about you and what you like. And if thats even the case find a girl that does like it. Man...

Do what you want man. If you like it because it makes you look older then do it. God :rolleyes: ...

Don't let other peoples taste and likes effect your decisions. Become a MAN and make your own decisions without outside influences.
Although its a great cliche "not to care", the truth is we all care. This is the reason you wake up brush your teeth, take a shower and put on fresh clothes. He just wants some opinions, no need to resent.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Facial hair makes you look older, though not necessarily better.

"Bum Fluff" makes you look like an idiot.

I shaved regulary until I was 17 and realised that not shaving made me look older so I could get into clubs to drink (18 over here is the drinking age).

I now have a goatee that looks pretty cool, and I have done for the last two years or so. Could have been longer actually, can't quite remember. Sometimes I shave it off, when I feel like it. Do what you feel comfortable with.

In your case, do what you want to do. I'd keep it myself. Makes you different in a good way (different in a bad way is, eg, goths), since most highschoolers shave.

Asian dude - shave the bum fluff. It'll take a while before you can grow a "proper" beard.

I'd also do a search. It's been covered many times before, so see what others have written.
 
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