"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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facial hair in high school?

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Well, I'm having trouble deciding...

Clean cut?
Some facial hair/rough look?
good amount of facial hair?

Some girls love me with some facial hair i'm told, but others somtimes tell me to shave and how i look better without facial hair.

What do you think most ladies in H.S. will prefer? I don't really mind..i just like some facial hair b/c it makes me look a little older?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dirtyvibe

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im 18 in like 2 months and i have no facial hair yet (im white). i love it =) it would suck to have to shave every other day.
 

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Most ladies prefer that you dont have facial hair.

That doesent stop me.

If you LIKE facial hair, then keep it.
 

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I would shave it cuz i see tonz of these HS kids runnin around with what looks like DIRT on their upper lip. Just shave it until it becomes more refined and thicker
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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im 18 and i still cant imagine a beard before next summer, while i know kids that had to shave since grade 7, and some white people too.
 

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Ive had to shave since I was 12 or 13, at 16 i can grow a full beard. I love my facial hair but i got sent home last week and was told i couldnt come back unless i had a shave :mad:
 

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Originally posted by Bakesta
Ive had to shave since I was 12 or 13, at 16 i can grow a full beard. I love my facial hair but i got sent home last week and was told i couldnt come back unless i had a shave :mad:
has england become a nazi regime?! you don't have the right to wear a beard?!
 

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Originally posted by shark
Well, I'm having trouble deciding...

Clean cut?
Some facial hair/rough look?
good amount of facial hair?

Some girls love me with some facial hair i'm told, but others somtimes tell me to shave and how i look better without facial hair.

What do you think most ladies in H.S. will prefer? I don't really mind..i just like some facial hair b/c it makes me look a little older?
I'm sorry; I thought you were a DJ? You haven't been reading your Bible have you?

Because the last time I check, real men don't care about what women will think or prefer. Fvck them ho's in what they prefer. It ain't about them. Its about you and what you like. And if thats even the case find a girl that does like it. Man...

Do what you want man. If you like it because it makes you look older then do it. God :rolleyes: ...

Don't let other peoples taste and likes effect your decisions. Become a MAN and make your own decisions without outside influences.
 

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Re: Re: facial hair in high school?

Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
I'm sorry; I thought you were a DJ? You haven't been reading your Bible have you?

Because the last time I check, real men don't care about what women will think or prefer. Fvck them ho's in what they prefer. It ain't about them. Its about you and what you like. And if thats even the case find a girl that does like it. Man...

Do what you want man. If you like it because it makes you look older then do it. God :rolleyes: ...

Don't let other peoples taste and likes effect your decisions. Become a MAN and make your own decisions without outside influences.
Although its a great cliche "not to care", the truth is we all care. This is the reason you wake up brush your teeth, take a shower and put on fresh clothes. He just wants some opinions, no need to resent.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Facial hair makes you look older, though not necessarily better.

"Bum Fluff" makes you look like an idiot.

I shaved regulary until I was 17 and realised that not shaving made me look older so I could get into clubs to drink (18 over here is the drinking age).

I now have a goatee that looks pretty cool, and I have done for the last two years or so. Could have been longer actually, can't quite remember. Sometimes I shave it off, when I feel like it. Do what you feel comfortable with.

In your case, do what you want to do. I'd keep it myself. Makes you different in a good way (different in a bad way is, eg, goths), since most highschoolers shave.

Asian dude - shave the bum fluff. It'll take a while before you can grow a "proper" beard.

I'd also do a search. It's been covered many times before, so see what others have written.
 
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