"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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facial hair in high school?

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Well, I'm having trouble deciding...

Clean cut?
Some facial hair/rough look?
good amount of facial hair?

Some girls love me with some facial hair i'm told, but others somtimes tell me to shave and how i look better without facial hair.

What do you think most ladies in H.S. will prefer? I don't really mind..i just like some facial hair b/c it makes me look a little older?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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im 18 in like 2 months and i have no facial hair yet (im white). i love it =) it would suck to have to shave every other day.
 
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Most ladies prefer that you dont have facial hair.

That doesent stop me.

If you LIKE facial hair, then keep it.
 
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I would shave it cuz i see tonz of these HS kids runnin around with what looks like DIRT on their upper lip. Just shave it until it becomes more refined and thicker
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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im 18 and i still cant imagine a beard before next summer, while i know kids that had to shave since grade 7, and some white people too.
 
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Ive had to shave since I was 12 or 13, at 16 i can grow a full beard. I love my facial hair but i got sent home last week and was told i couldnt come back unless i had a shave :mad:
 
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Originally posted by Bakesta
Ive had to shave since I was 12 or 13, at 16 i can grow a full beard. I love my facial hair but i got sent home last week and was told i couldnt come back unless i had a shave :mad:
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has england become a nazi regime?! you don't have the right to wear a beard?!
 
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Originally posted by shark
Well, I'm having trouble deciding...

Clean cut?
Some facial hair/rough look?
good amount of facial hair?

Some girls love me with some facial hair i'm told, but others somtimes tell me to shave and how i look better without facial hair.

What do you think most ladies in H.S. will prefer? I don't really mind..i just like some facial hair b/c it makes me look a little older?
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I'm sorry; I thought you were a DJ? You haven't been reading your Bible have you?

Because the last time I check, real men don't care about what women will think or prefer. Fvck them ho's in what they prefer. It ain't about them. Its about you and what you like. And if thats even the case find a girl that does like it. Man...

Do what you want man. If you like it because it makes you look older then do it. God :rolleyes: ...

Don't let other peoples taste and likes effect your decisions. Become a MAN and make your own decisions without outside influences.
 
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Re: Re: facial hair in high school?

Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
I'm sorry; I thought you were a DJ? You haven't been reading your Bible have you?

Because the last time I check, real men don't care about what women will think or prefer. Fvck them ho's in what they prefer. It ain't about them. Its about you and what you like. And if thats even the case find a girl that does like it. Man...

Do what you want man. If you like it because it makes you look older then do it. God :rolleyes: ...

Don't let other peoples taste and likes effect your decisions. Become a MAN and make your own decisions without outside influences.
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Although its a great cliche "not to care", the truth is we all care. This is the reason you wake up brush your teeth, take a shower and put on fresh clothes. He just wants some opinions, no need to resent.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Facial hair makes you look older, though not necessarily better.

"Bum Fluff" makes you look like an idiot.

I shaved regulary until I was 17 and realised that not shaving made me look older so I could get into clubs to drink (18 over here is the drinking age).

I now have a goatee that looks pretty cool, and I have done for the last two years or so. Could have been longer actually, can't quite remember. Sometimes I shave it off, when I feel like it. Do what you feel comfortable with.

In your case, do what you want to do. I'd keep it myself. Makes you different in a good way (different in a bad way is, eg, goths), since most highschoolers shave.

Asian dude - shave the bum fluff. It'll take a while before you can grow a "proper" beard.

I'd also do a search. It's been covered many times before, so see what others have written.
 
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