"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Aesthetix29

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Morning brahs, Okay for whatever's going on in my life right now ... And if your following my other thread, I've woke up this morning gone straight on Facebook, and just thought to myself this is sad so I've now deleted myself off it. I'm trying to self improve by focusing on my business and quitting drugs.

My question is will not being on Facebook help improve my life? (Stupid question I know but I'm trying to do the exact opposite, to what I've done for so many years) call it a kind of experiment.

The way I see it I'm stuck in a rut at the bottom and there's only one way I can go ... Right?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MrWood

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I've been on FB since it was beta, it is a part of my lifestyle, but not my relationships. It actually keeps me quite grounded, except now I do have a oneitis ex as a friend. That said, I have not changed my behavior but my usage comes and goes anyway.

IMO, it depends on how and why you have used it, does it help you in anyway?, does it harm you?
 

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Well let's put it this way .. It doesn't help my life. I just see it as a distraction ... It serves no purpose to me really, all my family are local. It's gone away so I'll see how I get on pal. Cheers
 

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There is no facebook is good or bad answers. I have friends who live all over the world and facebook is great for easily keeping in contact with them at all times throughout moving and new phones etc. It also lets me see how they are doing if I'm too busy to call or chat. I almost never post anymore and I figure if you're getting distracted by facebook, facebook isn't the problem. It's your mindset.

But whatever helps you. I don't think not using facebook can hurt.
 
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