"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Aesthetix29

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Morning brahs, Okay for whatever's going on in my life right now ... And if your following my other thread, I've woke up this morning gone straight on Facebook, and just thought to myself this is sad so I've now deleted myself off it. I'm trying to self improve by focusing on my business and quitting drugs.

My question is will not being on Facebook help improve my life? (Stupid question I know but I'm trying to do the exact opposite, to what I've done for so many years) call it a kind of experiment.

The way I see it I'm stuck in a rut at the bottom and there's only one way I can go ... Right?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MrWood

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I've been on FB since it was beta, it is a part of my lifestyle, but not my relationships. It actually keeps me quite grounded, except now I do have a oneitis ex as a friend. That said, I have not changed my behavior but my usage comes and goes anyway.

IMO, it depends on how and why you have used it, does it help you in anyway?, does it harm you?
 

Aesthetix29

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Well let's put it this way .. It doesn't help my life. I just see it as a distraction ... It serves no purpose to me really, all my family are local. It's gone away so I'll see how I get on pal. Cheers
 

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There is no facebook is good or bad answers. I have friends who live all over the world and facebook is great for easily keeping in contact with them at all times throughout moving and new phones etc. It also lets me see how they are doing if I'm too busy to call or chat. I almost never post anymore and I figure if you're getting distracted by facebook, facebook isn't the problem. It's your mindset.

But whatever helps you. I don't think not using facebook can hurt.
 
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