That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Stick to photos. Photos of you on vacation with beautiful women. Photos of other beautiful women. Photos of fine cuisine or fun places. Delete things that don't get any responses.Thechamp said:Facebook status updates that attract women? Any one do anything like this?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Very true, as a general rule a guy picks the best pic of a girl to justify chasing her while a girl picks the worst pic of a guy as a reason to drop him.pyros said:Agree with everything posted above.
I realised several months ago that I should not post anything that is or looks like a complain, negative opinion, criticism about whatever etc because some girls will think the opposite so you lose points with them.
Also keep goofy stuff to a minimum.
Just positive, fun, cool stuff, and pics with cute chicks. No pics with ugly or fugly girls.
No pics in which you dont look your best. It is a better idea to have just 10 pics in which you look good, than 10 good, 20 so so, 5 ugly.
Trust me, some girls will forget about you if you look really bad in ONE pic, even if you look fine in the rest lol.