You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Stick to photos. Photos of you on vacation with beautiful women. Photos of other beautiful women. Photos of fine cuisine or fun places. Delete things that don't get any responses.Thechamp said:Facebook status updates that attract women? Any one do anything like this?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Very true, as a general rule a guy picks the best pic of a girl to justify chasing her while a girl picks the worst pic of a guy as a reason to drop him.pyros said:Agree with everything posted above.
I realised several months ago that I should not post anything that is or looks like a complain, negative opinion, criticism about whatever etc because some girls will think the opposite so you lose points with them.
Also keep goofy stuff to a minimum.
Just positive, fun, cool stuff, and pics with cute chicks. No pics with ugly or fugly girls.
No pics in which you dont look your best. It is a better idea to have just 10 pics in which you look good, than 10 good, 20 so so, 5 ugly.
Trust me, some girls will forget about you if you look really bad in ONE pic, even if you look fine in the rest lol.