You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Stick to photos. Photos of you on vacation with beautiful women. Photos of other beautiful women. Photos of fine cuisine or fun places. Delete things that don't get any responses.Thechamp said:Facebook status updates that attract women? Any one do anything like this?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Very true, as a general rule a guy picks the best pic of a girl to justify chasing her while a girl picks the worst pic of a guy as a reason to drop him.pyros said:Agree with everything posted above.
I realised several months ago that I should not post anything that is or looks like a complain, negative opinion, criticism about whatever etc because some girls will think the opposite so you lose points with them.
Also keep goofy stuff to a minimum.
Just positive, fun, cool stuff, and pics with cute chicks. No pics with ugly or fugly girls.
No pics in which you dont look your best. It is a better idea to have just 10 pics in which you look good, than 10 good, 20 so so, 5 ugly.
Trust me, some girls will forget about you if you look really bad in ONE pic, even if you look fine in the rest lol.