Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Stick to photos. Photos of you on vacation with beautiful women. Photos of other beautiful women. Photos of fine cuisine or fun places. Delete things that don't get any responses.Thechamp said:Facebook status updates that attract women? Any one do anything like this?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Very true, as a general rule a guy picks the best pic of a girl to justify chasing her while a girl picks the worst pic of a guy as a reason to drop him.pyros said:Agree with everything posted above.
I realised several months ago that I should not post anything that is or looks like a complain, negative opinion, criticism about whatever etc because some girls will think the opposite so you lose points with them.
Also keep goofy stuff to a minimum.
Just positive, fun, cool stuff, and pics with cute chicks. No pics with ugly or fugly girls.
No pics in which you dont look your best. It is a better idea to have just 10 pics in which you look good, than 10 good, 20 so so, 5 ugly.
Trust me, some girls will forget about you if you look really bad in ONE pic, even if you look fine in the rest lol.