"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Facebook pickups technique. must read
- Thread starter Dman101
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Colossus
Master Don Juan
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- Jan 22, 2005
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I agree with Hockey Playa, random facebook messaging may yield results just because of the sheer numbers, but a man of value would not use this approach.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
But yeah sayin what's good just makes you sound like the legions of other rap wannabes of any race, and facebook is not good for random msging IMO
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
I've decided to just befriend most of them, but there is one that lives in my city. I've been really C&F with her, and have had her cracking up. We've only exchanged a few messages so far, and she added me as a friend. So, I figure I'll get her # soon.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
dannyegg4575
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 7, 2007
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- 311
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whatever you do, don't do this on facebook, trust me and everyone here telling you. arggg.... slipped up again. That's the reason why I lost friends and lost my girl. it must've been really embarrassing for her. NOW I SEE!
sigh...