"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Facebook pickups technique. must read
- Thread starter Dman101
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Colossus
Master Don Juan
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I agree with Hockey Playa, random facebook messaging may yield results just because of the sheer numbers, but a man of value would not use this approach.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
But yeah sayin what's good just makes you sound like the legions of other rap wannabes of any race, and facebook is not good for random msging IMO
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
I've decided to just befriend most of them, but there is one that lives in my city. I've been really C&F with her, and have had her cracking up. We've only exchanged a few messages so far, and she added me as a friend. So, I figure I'll get her # soon.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
dannyegg4575
Senior Don Juan
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whatever you do, don't do this on facebook, trust me and everyone here telling you. arggg.... slipped up again. That's the reason why I lost friends and lost my girl. it must've been really embarrassing for her. NOW I SEE!
sigh...