"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Facebook pickups technique. must read
- Thread starter Dman101
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Colossus
Master Don Juan
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I agree with Hockey Playa, random facebook messaging may yield results just because of the sheer numbers, but a man of value would not use this approach.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
But yeah sayin what's good just makes you sound like the legions of other rap wannabes of any race, and facebook is not good for random msging IMO
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
I've decided to just befriend most of them, but there is one that lives in my city. I've been really C&F with her, and have had her cracking up. We've only exchanged a few messages so far, and she added me as a friend. So, I figure I'll get her # soon.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
dannyegg4575
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whatever you do, don't do this on facebook, trust me and everyone here telling you. arggg.... slipped up again. That's the reason why I lost friends and lost my girl. it must've been really embarrassing for her. NOW I SEE!
sigh...