"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Facebook pickups technique. must read
- Thread starter Dman101
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Colossus
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 22, 2005
- Messages
- 3,494
- Reaction score
- 543
I agree with Hockey Playa, random facebook messaging may yield results just because of the sheer numbers, but a man of value would not use this approach.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
But yeah sayin what's good just makes you sound like the legions of other rap wannabes of any race, and facebook is not good for random msging IMO
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
I've decided to just befriend most of them, but there is one that lives in my city. I've been really C&F with her, and have had her cracking up. We've only exchanged a few messages so far, and she added me as a friend. So, I figure I'll get her # soon.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
dannyegg4575
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 7, 2007
- Messages
- 311
- Reaction score
- 11
whatever you do, don't do this on facebook, trust me and everyone here telling you. arggg.... slipped up again. That's the reason why I lost friends and lost my girl. it must've been really embarrassing for her. NOW I SEE!
sigh...