Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Cause you are below their petsTheLoner said:How come some people post pictures of their pets,
cats and dogs,
and get 50 likes?
BrownBear said:Cause you are below their pets
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/11/22/social-media-and-female-self-esteem/TheLoner said:How come some people post pictures of their pets,
cats and dogs,
and get 50 likes?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
wow, and you are 35??plate's_empty said:just post a picture of your Dong. That should get some likes. Even if it's small it's ok, you'll get some lol's.
Dude have u heard urself talk bro? HAHAHAHA you sound like an L-O-O-S-E-R to me no offense... I looked at ur started threads and I saw a bunch of the same old facebook posts... You need to get a life this is starting to get serious. Who in the world even uses facebook anymore?TheLoner said:I can't believe people's pets are more important than me.
It's just not fair.
Oh here comes another one, what are you the troll expert? You shouldn't make fun of people, some guys just have problems, the most you can do is try to help them out... Capisce?TheStig said:I don't understand how anyone can take TheLoner seriously...he is a colossal troll