"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Facebook idiot has no likes on his wall.

TheLoner

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Will I look like an idiot if I continue to keep posting
to my wall and get no likes?

Would you stop posting if you get no likes?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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playa99

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The problem is your posting to get likes, post things you find interesting, if people also find them interesting, they will like it!



And your putting to much emphasis on Facebook anyway, get out there, talk to people and interact, simples !
 

expos

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Don't post crap every week.

I post something like every 3 months - so whenever I post something, people are "interested" in what I have to say because I'm not in everyone's face all day like a lot of the people I'm "friends" with.

I lurk mostly...and "like" and comment on other people's updates when I feel the need to say something of value every so often. I do the chat and PM often, however.
 

switch

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this tip is from the book "forever alone: secrets to a hermit-celibate life "

make another FB account and start liking your wall on your real account


have fun GPSshi...i mean theloner!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheLoner

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How come some people post pictures of their pets,

cats and dogs,

and get 50 likes?
 

plate's_empty

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just post a picture of your Dong. That should get some likes. Even if it's small it's ok, you'll get some lol's.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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TheLoner

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plate's_empty said:
just post a picture of your Dong. That should get some likes. Even if it's small it's ok, you'll get some lol's.
wow, and you are 35??
 

TheStig

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I don't understand how anyone can take TheLoner seriously...he is a colossal troll
 

Groovy

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TheLoner said:
I can't believe people's pets are more important than me.

It's just not fair.
Dude have u heard urself talk bro? HAHAHAHA you sound like an L-O-O-S-E-R to me no offense... I looked at ur started threads and I saw a bunch of the same old facebook posts... You need to get a life this is starting to get serious. Who in the world even uses facebook anymore? :D HAHAHAHAHA.

TheStig said:
I don't understand how anyone can take TheLoner seriously...he is a colossal troll
Oh here comes another one, what are you the troll expert? You shouldn't make fun of people, some guys just have problems, the most you can do is try to help them out... Capisce?
 
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