"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Facebook idiot has no likes on his wall.
- Thread starter TheLoner
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
And your putting to much emphasis on Facebook anyway, get out there, talk to people and interact, simples !
expos
Master Don Juan
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I post something like every 3 months - so whenever I post something, people are "interested" in what I have to say because I'm not in everyone's face all day like a lot of the people I'm "friends" with.
I lurk mostly...and "like" and comment on other people's updates when I feel the need to say something of value every so often. I do the chat and PM often, however.
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Master Don Juan
make another FB account and start liking your wall on your real account
have fun GPSshi...i mean theloner!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
plate's_empty
Senior Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Dude have u heard urself talk bro? HAHAHAHA you sound like an L-O-O-S-E-R to me no offense... I looked at ur started threads and I saw a bunch of the same old facebook posts... You need to get a life this is starting to get serious. Who in the world even uses facebook anymore?TheLoner said:
HAHAHAHAHA.Oh here comes another one, what are you the troll expert? You shouldn't make fun of people, some guys just have problems, the most you can do is try to help them out... Capisce?TheStig said: