"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Facebook idiot has no likes on his wall.
- Thread starter TheLoner
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
And your putting to much emphasis on Facebook anyway, get out there, talk to people and interact, simples !
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Master Don Juan
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I post something like every 3 months - so whenever I post something, people are "interested" in what I have to say because I'm not in everyone's face all day like a lot of the people I'm "friends" with.
I lurk mostly...and "like" and comment on other people's updates when I feel the need to say something of value every so often. I do the chat and PM often, however.
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Master Don Juan
make another FB account and start liking your wall on your real account
have fun GPSshi...i mean theloner!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Senior Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dude have u heard urself talk bro? HAHAHAHA you sound like an L-O-O-S-E-R to me no offense... I looked at ur started threads and I saw a bunch of the same old facebook posts... You need to get a life this is starting to get serious. Who in the world even uses facebook anymore?TheLoner said:
HAHAHAHAHA.Oh here comes another one, what are you the troll expert? You shouldn't make fun of people, some guys just have problems, the most you can do is try to help them out... Capisce?TheStig said: