Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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F*ck you wheelchair ,lifting log

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Purefilth said:
100KG!! Yeah boii - much respest.

You know how many people cant even lift 80?

Good work.
thanks a lot man.
TheStig said:
Good job on the PR man! 2 plates on each side is a milestone!
well thats where the journey stops till i get a powerlifting coach :(
Social_Leper said:
Congrats on the 100kg milestone. Seriously impressive. You're hitting dragonball z territory right there. :rockon:
lol super sayan!! :rockon:

Krueg said:
220 Bench! nice job switch!
thanks a lot,bench will be the only lift im going to keep working on from now on
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thursday bench

50X8X3
60X5
70X8
80X4(new rep PR)
80X4
70X8X2

i was really depressed so i just came back to the crib.

****ing depressed

friday squats

50X8X2
60X8
70X3
70X2
80X5X3

kickbacks
chins
shrugs
again depressed,and well im going to rest for a while, since my depression is getting worst and i cant do jacksh!t, i cant even talk so fvck it
 

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Whats going on switch? Why you depressed all the time?

Good Job hitting that rep PR BTW!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thursday
Squats
50x5
80x3
80x2
80x2
110kgs x 1 fvck yeah :cheer:
^new PR
80x3
Dips 5 sets
Chins 3 sets
Lat downs 5 sets

30 mins
i forgot to tell someone to take a photo...oh well,monday it is then. bet i could even lift 120 kgs., since i was in "the zone" lol.i got sorelegs for the first time.
 
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Good work, your starting to turn into a PR Freak! :D
 

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Krueg said:
Good work, your starting to turn into a PR Freak! :D
yeah thanks ! im going to do a military press PR tomorrow,going for 70kgs (154lbs) so we'll see what will happen.

ive found out that a PR really depends on neuromuscular potentiation rather than actual muscular development .
 

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Yup, you got that right. PRs are much more mental than physical, everything has to be just right.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sunday
strict press
45x5
45X5
45x3
45X3
45X3
55X3 new PR :cheer:
55X3
55X2
55X2
55X1
45X3
45X3
45X3

shrugs
75X5 X 6

chins 10 sets
dips 3 sets -i got some pain in the shoulder girdle so called it a day
 

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Another solid training day! I'm gonna quote Arnold on this one. "The body is important, but the mind is even more important.." You did what you said you were gonna do!
 

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tuesday rack pulls

50X8
80X10
100kg X 5
110X5
80X5
my calluses got peeled off and started to bleed

single handed rack pulls(R- hand)
50X5 (felt light ,think i can do 80kgs)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i killed that pain off with some pain killers and im back in action
rack pulls
80X10
100X3
110X5
140 X FAIL
140X FAIL
110X2
100X5
80X5
50X3
shrugs
80X5X6

triceps pull overs
30 kgX5X6

chins
8 sets to failure
 

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saturday bench

50X8X2
70X5
80X3
80X2
80x1
100Xfail
90X1
90X2
80X3
80X3

shrugs
80X30
100X12

klokov press 50X5X3
farmer's walk 60, 4tmes around the gym
 

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bradd80 said:
yo switch, just wondering if your mood improved.. if not i'm surprised all this exercise hasn't improved it have you tried seeing a doctor?
hi man, thanks for the support.yeah i got an appointment with a shrink this week , so i have to talk with her and see what will happen.

im just frustrated i guess, not sexually but in ,how should i put this....im frustrated with my life,ill be graduating soon and well i have no direction or idea of what to do...

my profession is boring as sh!t, we have the 2nd highest rates of suicide amongst professionals in north america so yeah its boring.
my friends are fine for now because they have the typical dreams (family , disney wife, mercedez benz etc0.

i on the other hand well....have no plans, apart from trying to squeeze my ass into another boring as fvck stream -orthodontics....

also im alone. my friends are either busy with family or finding a fat wife(understandable) or douchebags (only a few).
my dad has never failed to ridicule me and continues to do so,just like 10 years ago when he started by calling me "micro-penis" ,
I , call him "nelson" for obvious reasons..... mom is depressed due to sh!t.

one night stands are just pointless,im jgoing thru the motions, doing a chore, satisfying some girl who I KNOW is slvttier than a toothless mexican *****

sometimes im like "ill just start a relationship with this 4 or 3 or 2" but then i know i can do WAY better,also i know that if i start something with a 4 or 3 ,im gonna end up cheating or dumping them and i dont wanna break anyone's heart (awww see? switch is human afterall and not a misogynist bot gaylan accuses me of.....)

i dont know ,a relationship with a 3? or should i just grind it for another 2 years till i can leave this place......?? a relationship can help me but on the other hand i dont want distractions.....or my conscious driving me to *gasp* wife up a 3 -----*getting seizures from that line * -_____-
...what will my friends think if i date a 3?
 

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4 week program to change my look.
right now i look like a machop,ive seen some weights but still lift less than a girl.time to evolve to machoke :box:
there are two types of days
faggot day- light,hypertrophy range
strength day - strength training (tues, thurs , saturday)

monday -faggot day (light day)

klokov press
45kgs X 3
45X3
45X3
45X3
45X3
45X3
45X3
45X3
45X3
45X4

shrugs
100kg X 8 X6

triceps pull overs
30 kgs 5X6 (i should let a lorry ram my ass, 30kgs is pathetic)

chins 3 sets

sore from klokoves
tomorrow will be zercher squats +dips,chins and shrugs.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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