Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
1) As for my face, most ppl do say that I looked naturally mean/angry when they havent met me yet. But its quite opposite to my normal mood.[S]alvatore said:Are you saying that you always have an upset/angry/pissed off/upset look on your face? Or that your intentions are way too obvious when gaming girls?
You have to get your vibe sorted.Rebound Material said:1) As for my face, most ppl do say that I looked naturally mean/angry when they havent met me yet
Probably. I think its also the fact that im asian that adds to it. Asians are known to look kinda pissed due to the chinky eyes. But besides that, I know for a fact that I cant hide my emotions well at all....Technical1 said:You have to get your vibe sorted.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Rebound Material said:See theres one thing about seperating logical action to emotional...but my face says ALL that I mean. When I get upset or offended ppl can tell that im pissed and Im not aware that im showing it. Same goes for when Im down or really bothered. I persoally think this is equivalent to not having a good poker face = They know if you have a good hand or not, and they would know how to beat you. Anyone else have this problem?