You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
1) As for my face, most ppl do say that I looked naturally mean/angry when they havent met me yet. But its quite opposite to my normal mood.[S]alvatore said:Are you saying that you always have an upset/angry/pissed off/upset look on your face? Or that your intentions are way too obvious when gaming girls?
You have to get your vibe sorted.Rebound Material said:1) As for my face, most ppl do say that I looked naturally mean/angry when they havent met me yet
Probably. I think its also the fact that im asian that adds to it. Asians are known to look kinda pissed due to the chinky eyes. But besides that, I know for a fact that I cant hide my emotions well at all....Technical1 said:You have to get your vibe sorted.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Rebound Material said:See theres one thing about seperating logical action to emotional...but my face says ALL that I mean. When I get upset or offended ppl can tell that im pissed and Im not aware that im showing it. Same goes for when Im down or really bothered. I persoally think this is equivalent to not having a good poker face = They know if you have a good hand or not, and they would know how to beat you. Anyone else have this problem?