Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
1) As for my face, most ppl do say that I looked naturally mean/angry when they havent met me yet. But its quite opposite to my normal mood.[S]alvatore said:Are you saying that you always have an upset/angry/pissed off/upset look on your face? Or that your intentions are way too obvious when gaming girls?
You have to get your vibe sorted.Rebound Material said:1) As for my face, most ppl do say that I looked naturally mean/angry when they havent met me yet
Probably. I think its also the fact that im asian that adds to it. Asians are known to look kinda pissed due to the chinky eyes. But besides that, I know for a fact that I cant hide my emotions well at all....Technical1 said:You have to get your vibe sorted.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Rebound Material said:See theres one thing about seperating logical action to emotional...but my face says ALL that I mean. When I get upset or offended ppl can tell that im pissed and Im not aware that im showing it. Same goes for when Im down or really bothered. I persoally think this is equivalent to not having a good poker face = They know if you have a good hand or not, and they would know how to beat you. Anyone else have this problem?