You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
1) As for my face, most ppl do say that I looked naturally mean/angry when they havent met me yet. But its quite opposite to my normal mood.[S]alvatore said:Are you saying that you always have an upset/angry/pissed off/upset look on your face? Or that your intentions are way too obvious when gaming girls?
You have to get your vibe sorted.Rebound Material said:1) As for my face, most ppl do say that I looked naturally mean/angry when they havent met me yet
Probably. I think its also the fact that im asian that adds to it. Asians are known to look kinda pissed due to the chinky eyes. But besides that, I know for a fact that I cant hide my emotions well at all....Technical1 said:You have to get your vibe sorted.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Rebound Material said:See theres one thing about seperating logical action to emotional...but my face says ALL that I mean. When I get upset or offended ppl can tell that im pissed and Im not aware that im showing it. Same goes for when Im down or really bothered. I persoally think this is equivalent to not having a good poker face = They know if you have a good hand or not, and they would know how to beat you. Anyone else have this problem?