"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Extremely hard time choosing between 2 women, help!

the_govner

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First woman - 4 dates, 4 weeks, perfectly according to script escalation wise. Amazing to talk to. Great chemistry. Wife material. Innocent. Bakes. Very, very smart (started her own extremely profitable business). LOTR is her favorite film (very cool in my book). Incredible body.

here's the but...

She has a face that everyone finds attractive but I'm not too fond of it, it's just okay for me. I keep finding myself checking her facebook trying to convince myself that i'm attracted.

Second woman - 3 dates, then she left for Geneva to finish her final year of school, keeping in touch and she's head over heels in love with me. She really really really wants me. Ambitious. Headstrong. Smart as hell. Amazing conversationalist. Wild in the sack. Very forward, and forward thinking.

And... She's breathtakingly gorgeous.

Cons, I don't get to see her for a year, and she seems like too much of a badass for me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zekko

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Wife material.
No woman is wife material.

Innocent.
Women are not innocent. They are slvtty wh0res who will fvck anything that moves as long as the guy makes her vagina tingle.

Very, very smart (started her own extremely profitable business)
Women are not smart, nor do they think, nor are they capable of starting a profitable business. Women function wholly on emotions.

LOTR is her favorite film (very cool in my book).
She probably likes the movie because she's incapable of reading the book.

Ambitious.
Women do not have ambitions, they flit from one thing to the other based on what their emotions are telling them to do.

Amazing conversationalist
If you consider talking about her hair products amazing.

And for those who want to disagree, obviously I'm being sarcastic.
OP, a year is a long time, a lot can change in that time. Stick with the innocent one and spin more plates if you so desire.
 

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zekko said:
No woman is wife material.


Women are not innocent. They are slvtty wh0res who will fvck anything that moves as long as the guy makes her vagina tingle.


Women are not smart, nor do they think, nor are they capable of starting a profitable business. Women function wholly on emotions.


She probably likes the movie because she's incapable of reading the book.


Women do not have ambitions, they flit from one thing to the other based on what their emotions are telling them to do.


If you consider talking about her hair products amazing.

And for those who want to disagree, obviously I'm being sarcastic.
OP, a year is a long time, a lot can change in that time. Stick with the innocent one and spin more plates if you so desire.

You were being sarcastic? I guess, like lies, there is always a bit of truth in sarcasm...
 

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You were being sarcastic? I guess, like lies, there is always a bit of truth in sarcasm...
There is.
 

the_govner

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zekko said:
There is.

lotr is her favourite book as well. hahahahha


but you're right about all of them being *****s once you tickle their ****!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The first logical question should be:

- Who says you have to choose between the 2 of them?

It's only been a few dates, why would you have to select one over the other? Keep seeing both, even if one doesn't come back for a year. I don't see WHY you have to choose just ONE.
 
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