"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Extremely hard time choosing between 2 women, help!

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First woman - 4 dates, 4 weeks, perfectly according to script escalation wise. Amazing to talk to. Great chemistry. Wife material. Innocent. Bakes. Very, very smart (started her own extremely profitable business). LOTR is her favorite film (very cool in my book). Incredible body.

here's the but...

She has a face that everyone finds attractive but I'm not too fond of it, it's just okay for me. I keep finding myself checking her facebook trying to convince myself that i'm attracted.

Second woman - 3 dates, then she left for Geneva to finish her final year of school, keeping in touch and she's head over heels in love with me. She really really really wants me. Ambitious. Headstrong. Smart as hell. Amazing conversationalist. Wild in the sack. Very forward, and forward thinking.

And... She's breathtakingly gorgeous.

Cons, I don't get to see her for a year, and she seems like too much of a badass for me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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zekko

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Wife material.
No woman is wife material.

Innocent.
Women are not innocent. They are slvtty wh0res who will fvck anything that moves as long as the guy makes her vagina tingle.

Very, very smart (started her own extremely profitable business)
Women are not smart, nor do they think, nor are they capable of starting a profitable business. Women function wholly on emotions.

LOTR is her favorite film (very cool in my book).
She probably likes the movie because she's incapable of reading the book.

Ambitious.
Women do not have ambitions, they flit from one thing to the other based on what their emotions are telling them to do.

Amazing conversationalist
If you consider talking about her hair products amazing.

And for those who want to disagree, obviously I'm being sarcastic.
OP, a year is a long time, a lot can change in that time. Stick with the innocent one and spin more plates if you so desire.
 

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zekko said:
No woman is wife material.


Women are not innocent. They are slvtty wh0res who will fvck anything that moves as long as the guy makes her vagina tingle.


Women are not smart, nor do they think, nor are they capable of starting a profitable business. Women function wholly on emotions.


She probably likes the movie because she's incapable of reading the book.


Women do not have ambitions, they flit from one thing to the other based on what their emotions are telling them to do.


If you consider talking about her hair products amazing.

And for those who want to disagree, obviously I'm being sarcastic.
OP, a year is a long time, a lot can change in that time. Stick with the innocent one and spin more plates if you so desire.

You were being sarcastic? I guess, like lies, there is always a bit of truth in sarcasm...
 

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You were being sarcastic? I guess, like lies, there is always a bit of truth in sarcasm...
There is.
 

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zekko said:
There is.

lotr is her favourite book as well. hahahahha


but you're right about all of them being *****s once you tickle their ****!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The first logical question should be:

- Who says you have to choose between the 2 of them?

It's only been a few dates, why would you have to select one over the other? Keep seeing both, even if one doesn't come back for a year. I don't see WHY you have to choose just ONE.
 
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