Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Extremely hard time choosing between 2 women, help!

the_govner

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First woman - 4 dates, 4 weeks, perfectly according to script escalation wise. Amazing to talk to. Great chemistry. Wife material. Innocent. Bakes. Very, very smart (started her own extremely profitable business). LOTR is her favorite film (very cool in my book). Incredible body.

here's the but...

She has a face that everyone finds attractive but I'm not too fond of it, it's just okay for me. I keep finding myself checking her facebook trying to convince myself that i'm attracted.

Second woman - 3 dates, then she left for Geneva to finish her final year of school, keeping in touch and she's head over heels in love with me. She really really really wants me. Ambitious. Headstrong. Smart as hell. Amazing conversationalist. Wild in the sack. Very forward, and forward thinking.

And... She's breathtakingly gorgeous.

Cons, I don't get to see her for a year, and she seems like too much of a badass for me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zekko

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Wife material.
No woman is wife material.

Innocent.
Women are not innocent. They are slvtty wh0res who will fvck anything that moves as long as the guy makes her vagina tingle.

Very, very smart (started her own extremely profitable business)
Women are not smart, nor do they think, nor are they capable of starting a profitable business. Women function wholly on emotions.

LOTR is her favorite film (very cool in my book).
She probably likes the movie because she's incapable of reading the book.

Ambitious.
Women do not have ambitions, they flit from one thing to the other based on what their emotions are telling them to do.

Amazing conversationalist
If you consider talking about her hair products amazing.

And for those who want to disagree, obviously I'm being sarcastic.
OP, a year is a long time, a lot can change in that time. Stick with the innocent one and spin more plates if you so desire.
 

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zekko said:
No woman is wife material.


Women are not innocent. They are slvtty wh0res who will fvck anything that moves as long as the guy makes her vagina tingle.


Women are not smart, nor do they think, nor are they capable of starting a profitable business. Women function wholly on emotions.


She probably likes the movie because she's incapable of reading the book.


Women do not have ambitions, they flit from one thing to the other based on what their emotions are telling them to do.


If you consider talking about her hair products amazing.

And for those who want to disagree, obviously I'm being sarcastic.
OP, a year is a long time, a lot can change in that time. Stick with the innocent one and spin more plates if you so desire.

You were being sarcastic? I guess, like lies, there is always a bit of truth in sarcasm...
 

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You were being sarcastic? I guess, like lies, there is always a bit of truth in sarcasm...
There is.
 

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zekko said:
There is.

lotr is her favourite book as well. hahahahha


but you're right about all of them being *****s once you tickle their ****!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The first logical question should be:

- Who says you have to choose between the 2 of them?

It's only been a few dates, why would you have to select one over the other? Keep seeing both, even if one doesn't come back for a year. I don't see WHY you have to choose just ONE.
 
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