"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Extremely hard time choosing between 2 women, help!

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First woman - 4 dates, 4 weeks, perfectly according to script escalation wise. Amazing to talk to. Great chemistry. Wife material. Innocent. Bakes. Very, very smart (started her own extremely profitable business). LOTR is her favorite film (very cool in my book). Incredible body.

here's the but...

She has a face that everyone finds attractive but I'm not too fond of it, it's just okay for me. I keep finding myself checking her facebook trying to convince myself that i'm attracted.

Second woman - 3 dates, then she left for Geneva to finish her final year of school, keeping in touch and she's head over heels in love with me. She really really really wants me. Ambitious. Headstrong. Smart as hell. Amazing conversationalist. Wild in the sack. Very forward, and forward thinking.

And... She's breathtakingly gorgeous.

Cons, I don't get to see her for a year, and she seems like too much of a badass for me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Wife material.
No woman is wife material.

Innocent.
Women are not innocent. They are slvtty wh0res who will fvck anything that moves as long as the guy makes her vagina tingle.

Very, very smart (started her own extremely profitable business)
Women are not smart, nor do they think, nor are they capable of starting a profitable business. Women function wholly on emotions.

LOTR is her favorite film (very cool in my book).
She probably likes the movie because she's incapable of reading the book.

Ambitious.
Women do not have ambitions, they flit from one thing to the other based on what their emotions are telling them to do.

Amazing conversationalist
If you consider talking about her hair products amazing.

And for those who want to disagree, obviously I'm being sarcastic.
OP, a year is a long time, a lot can change in that time. Stick with the innocent one and spin more plates if you so desire.
 

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zekko said:
No woman is wife material.


Women are not innocent. They are slvtty wh0res who will fvck anything that moves as long as the guy makes her vagina tingle.


Women are not smart, nor do they think, nor are they capable of starting a profitable business. Women function wholly on emotions.


She probably likes the movie because she's incapable of reading the book.


Women do not have ambitions, they flit from one thing to the other based on what their emotions are telling them to do.


If you consider talking about her hair products amazing.

And for those who want to disagree, obviously I'm being sarcastic.
OP, a year is a long time, a lot can change in that time. Stick with the innocent one and spin more plates if you so desire.

You were being sarcastic? I guess, like lies, there is always a bit of truth in sarcasm...
 

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You were being sarcastic? I guess, like lies, there is always a bit of truth in sarcasm...
There is.
 

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zekko said:
There is.

lotr is her favourite book as well. hahahahha


but you're right about all of them being *****s once you tickle their ****!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The first logical question should be:

- Who says you have to choose between the 2 of them?

It's only been a few dates, why would you have to select one over the other? Keep seeing both, even if one doesn't come back for a year. I don't see WHY you have to choose just ONE.
 
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