Well, last night was the first time I sersly hooked up with a girl. A little late?, 16?, yea it is, but not too long ago I was wbafc. So anyway, I never really liked this girl, she was just my friend that hit on me. Eh well I went over her house and hooked up and cuddled with her for a while. Wow first time yay, but the problem is, I feel way too attracted to this girl now and I don't want to be, I feel like I have oneits, I woke up, feeling like sh!t, looking like sh!t, and beyond emotional. I'm lost, help.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
?Extreme Oneitis After First Hook up?
- Thread starter SexinEar
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
INXS
Don Juan
Go meet new women..NOW. This is the BEST cure.
She was your first one, it's just a normal reaction. If you are starting to like her there is no reason to deny yourself that situation. If she is no quality then count on the fact that you will come to your senses once the "holy ****', i just busted a nut" feeling fades.
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It's your first time, so it's normal for you to feel this way. If you hooked up with another girl the following day, and another one the day after that, you wouldn't feel so 'attached' to this one.SexinEar said:Well, last night was the first time I sersly hooked up with a girl. A little late?, 16?, yea it is, but not too long ago I was wbafc. So anyway, I never really liked this girl, she was just my friend that hit on me. Eh well I went over her house and hooked up and cuddled with her for a while. Wow first time yay, but the problem is, I feel way too attracted to this girl now and I don't want to be, I feel like I have oneits, I woke up, feeling like sh!t, looking like sh!t, and beyond emotional. I'm lost, help.
Use some of that confidence you now have to meet other girls. Never, ever get 'to' attached to any 'one' girl.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LMFAO>>> this is what just happened, the horrible oneitis feeling lasted a couple hours, you couldn't be more right.******* said:If she is no quality then count on the fact that you will come to your senses once the "holy ****', i just busted a nut" feeling fades.