Well, last night was the first time I sersly hooked up with a girl. A little late?, 16?, yea it is, but not too long ago I was wbafc. So anyway, I never really liked this girl, she was just my friend that hit on me. Eh well I went over her house and hooked up and cuddled with her for a while. Wow first time yay, but the problem is, I feel way too attracted to this girl now and I don't want to be, I feel like I have oneits, I woke up, feeling like sh!t, looking like sh!t, and beyond emotional. I'm lost, help.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
?Extreme Oneitis After First Hook up?
- Thread starter SexinEar
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
INXS
Don Juan
Go meet new women..NOW. This is the BEST cure.
She was your first one, it's just a normal reaction. If you are starting to like her there is no reason to deny yourself that situation. If she is no quality then count on the fact that you will come to your senses once the "holy ****', i just busted a nut" feeling fades.
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It's your first time, so it's normal for you to feel this way. If you hooked up with another girl the following day, and another one the day after that, you wouldn't feel so 'attached' to this one.SexinEar said:Well, last night was the first time I sersly hooked up with a girl. A little late?, 16?, yea it is, but not too long ago I was wbafc. So anyway, I never really liked this girl, she was just my friend that hit on me. Eh well I went over her house and hooked up and cuddled with her for a while. Wow first time yay, but the problem is, I feel way too attracted to this girl now and I don't want to be, I feel like I have oneits, I woke up, feeling like sh!t, looking like sh!t, and beyond emotional. I'm lost, help.
Use some of that confidence you now have to meet other girls. Never, ever get 'to' attached to any 'one' girl.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LMFAO>>> this is what just happened, the horrible oneitis feeling lasted a couple hours, you couldn't be more right.******* said:If she is no quality then count on the fact that you will come to your senses once the "holy ****', i just busted a nut" feeling fades.